[Lesson 54] Figurative Groom, Bride, Widow, and Orphan

by ichthus

The lesson covers the figurative meanings of the groom representing the spirit/Word of God and the bride representing those who receive and bear fruit from that Word. It discusses the Old Testament prophecy of God betrothing a faithful bride (Hosea 2:19-20) which was fulfilled at Christ’s first coming when the Spirit descended on Jesus (Matthew 3:16). At the second coming, there will be a “wedding banquet of the Lamb” (Revelation 19:7-9) where the faithful bride has made herself ready. To attend requires having righteous deeds as “wedding clothes” (Matthew 22:11-14), the “lamp” of the Word (Matthew 25:1-13), and the “oil” of the Spirit’s testimony (Revelation 10:8-11). In contrast, Babylon represents the unfaithful “bride” married to Satan (Revelation 18:23). A “widow” is a pastor/church who betrayed God’s covenant, and the congregation are “orphans” (Revelation 18:23). The main point is distinguishing the faithful bride from counterfeits and ensuring proper spiritual qualifications.

 

Study Guide SCJ Bible Study

Shincheonji holds distinct theological views that differ from mainstream Christian denominations, yet it also shares some common teachings. This overlap can sometimes blur the lines between their beliefs and those of traditional Christianity. Therefore, it is essential to exercise critical thinking and discernment to differentiate between these shared elements and the unique doctrines they present.

While their interpretations warrant careful examination through a critical and biblical lens, it is equally important to approach these matters with an open yet discerning mindset.

The following notes were documented in person during Shincheonji’s 9-month Bible Study Seminar. They provide insight into the organization’s approach to introducing and explaining its beliefs to potential new members, often referred to as the ‘harvesting and sealing.’ This process is described as being ‘born again’ or ‘born of God’s seed,’ which involves uprooting the old beliefs and replanting new ones. This uprooting and replanting must occur continuously. By examining this process, we can gain a better understanding of the mindset and beliefs held by Shincheonji members.

Figurative meanings:

Groom: Spirit     |    Bride: Flesh

Widow: Pastor who betrayed without the Holy Spirit

Orphan: Believers belonging to the pastor who betrayed

Who were the Groom and the Bride at the First Coming?

– Groom → God
– Bride → Jesus

Who are the Groom and Bride at the Second Coming?

– Groom → Jesus
– Bride → New John

Review with the Evangelist

Memorization

Revelation 18:4

Then I heard another voice from heaven say:

“‘Come out of her, my people,’ so that you will not share in her sins, so that you will not receive any of her plagues;

 

Yeast of Heaven

What good are the things of the world like money, material possessions, honor and authority. If you die? They are uselss. These things cannot give us life. The only thing we need is God. God alone is our savior. We must give thanks and be grateful for God’s grace in choosing us out of many people.

 

Our Hope: To be qualified to enter the wedding banquet at the Second Coming!



Secrets of Heaven, the Figurative Groom, Bride, Widow, and Orphan

I hope that the second coming is becoming clearer. Previously, it was a bit of a blurry picture. We had some idea, but we really didn’t know the details. However, now that we’re learning the open word, the details are beginning to be filled in, especially regarding what we’ll be discussing today.

 

The groom represents a spirit, and the bride represents flesh.

The widow represents a pastor who has betrayed and is without the Holy Spirit.

An orphan would be a believer belonging to the pastor who has betrayed, meaning that pastor’s congregation.

 

Hopefully, as we’ve been studying, the logic behind this is already starting to make sense. 

 

A pastor is supposed to be able to receive the seed from above, the word from above, and give that word or seed that he has received to his congregation. That’s how things are supposed to work.

 

However, if a pastor becomes a widow, it means they are no longer receiving the word from above but receiving it from a different source, or not receiving it at all. This is the logic behind what we’ll be discussing today. Additionally, we’ll also be learning about the wedding banquet.

 

Our hope for today is to be qualified to enter the wedding banquet at the second coming.

 

What does it mean to be qualified? Qualification means that you meet specific criteria for something.

 

God doesn’t allow just anyone to stay at the wedding banquet. One must meet specific qualifications, and we’ll understand what those qualifications are today.

 

 

Previous Lesson Review

Review

We looked at the figurative grave in the last lesson. The figurative grave represents an organization of false truth. It is a place where people whose spirits are dead are buried.

 

So, anyone who followed the Pharisees and Sadducees 2000 years ago were buried in spiritual graves, though they did not realize it. While they could walk, breathe, and eat physically, they were alive, but spiritually, they were dead inside. However, Jesus came to bring different types of resurrection.

 

He resurrected people physically, like Lazarus, but he also resurrected people spiritually as he spoke to them. As he spoke, he was fulfilling Ezekiel 37, about the valley of dry bones, bringing people to life with his words. So, resurrection is the spirit that comes to life by the word of life.

 

This is a summary; please refer to the full definition that we learned: a spirit that comes to life through the word of life. So, there were graves at the first coming. But as we saw in Revelation 18, there are also graves at the time of the second coming.

 

The second coming grave is called Babylon. And what does Revelation 18:4 say? “Come out of her, my people.” When a person is resurrected and realizes they are in a grave, they do not stay there and accept the situation. Instead, they claw their way out with vigorous effort and passion, exclaiming, “Get me out of here. I want life!” 

 

So, when one realizes they are in a spiritual grave, they should do the same thing: come out with vigorous effort and passion to get out of that location.

 

Let’s now discuss today’s lesson. There are some mindsets and things that I want us to keep in mind, as they will make this lesson much easier to understand.

 

One of the questions that has been asked a few times in the Q&A session is about the physical differences between men and women, and who is supposed to speak or not speak. Right? This has been a question in the church for over 2,000 years, based on two particular passages written by Paul.

 

However, before we delve into today’s lesson, I want us to truly comprehend what Paul meant. Let’s first read Galatians chapter three, also written by Paul, Galatians 3:26-29.

 

I want you all to keep this passage in mind at all times.

Galatians 3:26-29

26 So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith, 27 for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. 28 There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. 29 If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.

Paul states that you are all sons of God through your faith in Jesus. Physically, what does a man possess that a woman does not have?

 

What distinguishes a man from a woman physically? What is the most crucial aspect? While there are many details, the most important thing a physical man has that a physical woman does not is seed.

 

I’m not referring to a body part but specifically what that body part produces. A man has seed, which a woman does not have.

 

When Paul says you are all sons of God through Christ, he implies that you all have the seed. And what is the seed, everyone? Can we all hold up the seed?

 

Does everyone have their seed with them? You all have the seed, which makes you sons.

 

So this is the reason why there is no male and no female physically. Remember, God does not look at physical appearance when seeking someone to work through. He looks at their heart, as stated in 1 Samuel 16:7. The heart is much more important to God than their physical being.

 

God looks at the heart. And when he looks at the heart, he will look for whether this person has his word or not. Keeping this in mind, we need to understand the importance of the seed.

 

The seed is most important because spiritually, we should all be those who have the seed and be sons of God. But we are also called brides of Christ.

 

What does that mean? And are those two things contradictory? Of course, they are not contradictory.

 

But we have to think spiritually. If we think physically, we will become confused. So the spiritual aspect is what matters.

 

What does God see? What is on the inside? Please keep this in mind as we go over the lesson today.



Figurative Groom and Bride

Old Testament Prophecy

Hosea 2:19-20

19 I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice,

 In love and compassion.

20 I will betroth you in faithfulness, and you will acknowledge the Lord.

I will betroth you. Let’s understand this a little bit here. This is an Old Testament prophecy.

 

If you look at all of Hosea chapter 2, God, at the beginning of the chapter, is lamenting about one who became like a harlot or prostitute. And how this harlot or prostitute had many different other husbands, figuratively speaking. And how God would basically divorce that harlot or prostitute.

 

But at the end of the chapter, starting from verse 19, there would be a different one that He would then betroth. This is why this “you” here (I will betroth you) is actually very important. Because when God says this one has no longer kept my covenant, God then moves on to another one.

 

So keep in mind that there is a different “you” here. The word betrothed represents another word for saying marry. So God is saying I will marry a different you.

 

And this you that I will betroth will be betrothed in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion, in faithfulness and acknowledgment of the Lord. Let’s understand what this means in more detail and how it plays out at the time of the first coming and also the time of the second coming as well.



1. Physical Characteristics of a Groom and a Bride

Romans 1:20 and Hosea 12:10

Romans 1:20 suggests that God uses physical things to explain Himself. He uses His creation to represent Himself.

 

And Hosea 12:10 states that God speaks through the prophets in dreams, parables, and visions. So, as we understand the physical characteristics, we can comprehend the spiritual characteristics. This is why we study the parables in the first place.

 

1. The groom gives the seed to the bride, and the result of that is a child.

 

These are the physical characteristics that God designed and created for a reason. Another crucial aspect is that before the seed is shared in normal or biblical circumstances, a covenant is established between the groom and the bride.

 

The covenant represents a serious promise, a vow that the two make to never break their commitment and remain together forever. It is within this covenant relationship that the seed is transferred in normal circumstances. Keep these points in mind.



2. Spiritual (True) Meaning of Groom and Bride

Remember, spirit and flesh. What does that mean?

Let’s see it in detail.

Jeremiah 31:31-32

31 “The days are coming,” declares the Lord, “when I will make a new covenant

with the people of Israel and with the people of Judah.

32 It will not be like the covenant I made with their ancestors when I took them by the hand to lead them out of Egypt, because they broke my covenant, though I was a husband to them,” declares the Lord.

ONE – God is upset, similar to Hosea 2. If God wasn’t upset, there would be no need to establish a new covenant, different from the one established with the ancestors. At the end of verse 32, God said it will be different because they broke His covenant, though He was a husband to them. 

God, who is a spirit, is calling Himself a husband. This is the reason why God holds covenants, especially the marriage covenant, in such high regard.

 

The marriage between a physical man and woman is a figurative representation, a copy, an example, or model of what God does with His chosen people. Since the beginning, in the book of Genesis, what has God been doing? Establishing covenants with His chosen people, over and over again, like a husband does with his wife.

 

God does the same thing. So, how do you think God will feel if someone breaks His covenant, similar to how someone in a spousal relationship would feel if their covenant is broken? It would be an extremely painful experience.

 

We really have to understand how important God considers this and not overlook what God has promised He will do when covenants are broken. If God, who is a spirit, compares Himself to a husband, then who is He marrying spiritually? People.

 

And those people have a job to do, those that God marries or betroths. They have a job to do. Let’s see an example of what this job is like.

Galatians 4:19

My dear children, for whom I am again in the pains of childbirth until Christ is formed in you,

TWO – Is Paul physically a woman? No, he is a man, right? So, how can he be in the pains of childbirth? Ah, it must be spiritual, figurative, not literal. Of course, that makes sense. So, what is the logic here?

Well, which spirit did Paul encounter that changed his whole life? Jesus. Jesus comes to Paul and changes his entire existence. And what does he say to Paul? “You are now my chosen vessel.” In Acts 9:15, “You are my vessel to the world, to the Gentiles.” Go out and share the word that you have received, essentially. So, Jesus comes to Paul, and now Paul’s job is to be fruitful, to have children. And what does Paul give them? He gives them the seed, the seed that he received. He gives birth.

 

Now, is childbirth in any situation that you can describe it as easy? Only 50% of the class can answer this one because 50% of the class will actually go through it. How is childbirth, everybody? A piece of cake? Easy? No, no. Yeah, hands down, thumbs down, right? I’m sure it’s extremely painful. I’m not trying to make light of that situation because I understand it is not easy. Physical childbirth is extremely difficult. In fact, it could risk the life of the mother. That’s how difficult it is.

 

Well, guess what? Did Paul go through great risks to establish churches? Yeah, he had his life threatened numerous times. And then he would hear about the children that he had just given birth to, and they were up to shenanigans. So, he would have to write letters to them. I’m sure it was really painful. But his heart was like that of a mother. They must have Christ formed within them. They have to grow up and become mature believers because I will not always be here for them.

 

They have to be strong enough to take the torch after me, just like Jesus ensured that his disciples were strong enough to take the torch after him. And how every parent makes sure that their children can survive without them.

 

A child that cannot survive without their parent is a super sad situation. Not a good situation. So, maturity is really important.

 

But until that point, the person who was receiving that word has to make sure the children are mature. And Paul often called the early Christians his children, like in 1 Corinthians 6:13, where he says, “we call you children.”

 

Why? Because we gave birth to you. So, in this situation here, Paul is representing himself like a spiritual woman, which essentially means a pastor.

 

One who receives the word from the Spirit and must then give birth and nurture the congregation who are his children, essentially. So, let’s see an example of how Paul treated the maturity level of his children and made sure they received the food appropriate for where they were at that time.

1 Corinthians 3:1-3

Brothers and sisters, I could not address you as people who live by the Spirit but as people who are still worldly—mere infants in Christ. 2 I gave you milk, not solid food, for you were not yet ready for it. Indeed, you are still not ready. 3 You are still worldly. For since there is jealousy and quarreling among you, are you not worldly? Are you not acting like mere humans?

So, what was Paul doing here as one who was in the pains of childbirth, and also something that a mother does with their child?

 

A mother cannot feed steak to a baby because the baby is not yet ready for solid food. A mother has to understand that the baby still needs milk. 

 

Every child reaches the stage of being ready for solid food at a different time, right? One older child might get there by around 18 months, but another might need 19 or 20 months. A mother will be able to determine when that point is reached.

 

A mother is supposed to be able to know when one child needs milk and when another is ready for solid food. This is just an example of how Paul, as a nurturing spiritual mother, was providing the appropriate nourishment to the congregation. The spirit, husband, and wife represent the bride and groom, and the seed is given from one to the next, resulting in spiritual children being born from that situation.

 

If we look back at Hosea 19:20, where God prophesies to betroth you, who is the specific “you” being referred to?

Quick Review

Quick Review

We looked at the bride and groom. The groom represents the spirit, while the bride represents the flesh. In Hosea 2:19-20, which we’ll examine again, it talks about how God promises to betroth “you.”

So, who is this “you” specifically referring to in these verses? We explored the physical characteristics of how brides and grooms operate. They establish a covenant, and then, within that covenant, the groom passes the seed to the bride, and the bride produces a child.

 

Spiritually, the logic is the same. God often referred to Himself as a husband to His chosen people, and He established covenants with each of them. But what is the job of that chosen one who receives a covenant to bear children?

 

Ever since the beginning of time, ever since the creation of man, God said, “Be fruitful and multiply, make more who are like you.” This was the command given in Genesis, and that command has never changed.

 

God did not give you the open word for you to keep it only to yourself. You’re given this word so that you too can become like spiritual mothers, bringing someone else to hear this word as well. And what happens when you invite someone to study the word? You then realize, “Oh, I need to step up my game because now this person is looking at me.”

 

“What state am I in? Am I studying well? Do I pray often? Let me be a good example.” It really levels you up quickly when you bring someone to study as well. It also helps because that person may ask you a question you might not know the answer to. But you need to explain it in a way that makes sense for them because they just started studying, and you’ve been studying for almost four months. You’re not at the same level of understanding.

 

So, you can’t say the same things you’re learning now to them because it would be like feeding solid food to an infant. You don’t want them to choke. You want them to understand. So, you really have to prepare the figurative food well, actually prepare the lesson. Keep those things in mind.

 

Paul mentioned that he was in the pains of childbirth, of course, figuratively, meaning that his job was to bear children, those who would become Christians, and make sure that Christ was fully formed in each of them, so that when he was no longer with them, they would be able to stand firm and carry the faith forward. That was his job. So, let’s now look at that promise from Hosea 2:19-20.

 

We’ll look at the Old Testament prophecy and how that Old Testament prophecy was fulfilled at the time of the first coming.

Hosea 2:19-20 (Old Testament Prophesy)

God promises to betroth you.

So who is this “you” here? And what does it mean to betroth? To betroth means to marry or become one. 

That’s what it means to get married. We often talk about this in detail. When we look at the relationship between a man and a woman, two people become one flesh, with one heart, one desire, one will, one plan.

 

It’s often difficult for two very different people to be able to become one. I’m learning that as well. It takes time for two to become one because they usually have different wills or ideas.

They have to understand and communicate with each other. Keep that in mind. Now let’s look at the fulfillment of this prophecy.

 

Who was the one that God came to at the time of the first coming? Jesus.

First Coming Fulfillment

Matthew 3:16

As soon as Jesus was baptized, he went up out of the water. At that moment heaven was opened, and he saw the Spirit of God descending like a dove and alighting on him.

The passage mentions that Jesus saw the Spirit of God descending from heaven like a dove and alighting on him. This “you” refers to Jesus himself.

 

The question is raised about understanding what Paul meant regarding Jesus’ relationship with the Father. To clarify this, a reference is made to John 10:30, where Jesus speaks about his relationship with the Father.

John 10:30

I and the Father are one.”

What did Jesus say? “I and the Father are one.”

 

So, what was Jesus’s role during his first coming? What was he meant to do with the word or the seed that he received from God?

 

His role was to share it with many people, as stated in John 17:8, “For I gave them the words that you gave me, and they accepted them and believed that you sent me.”

 

God was working through the flesh of his Son, Jesus, to accomplish the work of bearing many spiritual children during his first coming. These are the Christians, those who will keep the new covenant that he promised. We’ll explore this relationship further in the next level of Bible logic.

 

So the purpose of the first coming was along these lines. The second coming has a very similar logic behind it.



3. Spiritual Marriage (Wedding) at the Second Coming

Matthew 22:1-4

Jesus spoke to them again in parables, saying: 2 “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. 3 He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come.

4 “Then he sent some more servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner: My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’

ONE – What did Jesus compare this parable to? A wedding banquet.

What did he compare it to at the beginning? The kingdom of heaven.

The kingdom of heaven is likened to a wedding banquet.

 

Interesting.

And we are familiar with the kingdom of heaven being compared to things, right? In Matthew chapter 13, the kingdom of heaven is compared to six different things.

What are those things? It is compared to yeast, a net, a man who found treasure in a field, a seed, the mustard seed, and the weeds in the field. So, it is compared to many things.

 

If someone were to ask you, “What does the kingdom of heaven look like?” You should be able to answer, “Like a wedding banquet,” and that would be the correct response. But really, what does that mean?

 

First, let’s break down the different parts of this parable. A king representing the kingdom of heaven is mentioned. Who is that king? God is the king.

 

So then, who is the son that is getting married? Jesus.

 

Pretty straightforward, right? The king is God, and the son to be married is Jesus. But we know that the descriptions of the kingdom of heaven are the secrets of heaven that are opened and fulfilled at the time of the second coming.

 

Jesus was prophesying about what would take place in the future, and people needed to understand and be ready for what was promised. So, at the time of the second coming, we should be expecting a wedding to take place.

 

Who here was expecting a wedding to take place at the second coming? I hope so. But we’re here, and we’re studying.

A wedding must take place, for it is prophesied. But what kind of wedding? A wedding where we’ll all be dressed like this?

All right, here we go. Let’s crawl down the aisle. Well, something like that.

 

Well, let’s understand in a little bit more detail. Let’s now turn to the book of Revelation. And I’m going to give us details about who is the bride, for we haven’t talked about the bride yet in this situation.

Revelation 2:18

“To the angel of the church in Thyatira write:

These are the words of the Son of God, whose eyes are like blazing fire and whose feet are like burnished bronze.

These are the words of the Son of God. Revelation chapters 2 and 3 contain letters sent from Jesus through a messenger to the seven churches. 

 

In each letter, Jesus provides specific details about what the church has done and what it needs to do to repent. This is the context for Revelation 2:18. It starts by saying, “These are the words of the Son of God.”

 

However, the Son of God is also referred to by another title. If we look at verses 26 to 29, pay attention to how the Son of God is mentioned there.

Revelation 2:26-29

26 To the one who is victorious and does my will to the end, I will give authority over the nations— 27 that one ‘will rule them with an iron scepter and will dash them to pieces like pottery’—just as I have received authority from my Father. 28 I will also give that one the morning star. 29 Whoever has ears, let them hear what the Spirit says to the churches.

Let’s examine some details mentioned here that need to be given to the one who overcomes.

 

A white stone, an iron scepter, and a morning star must be bestowed upon them. Keep in mind that the morning star must be given to the one who overcomes, along with the iron scepter.

 

And what did the last verse state? Verse 29 says, “He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches.”

 

But which Spirit is speaking here? It is Jesus speaking. So, it refers to Jesus as the Spirit.

 

And Jesus intends to marry, as the one participating in the wedding banquet prophesied in Matthew 22. Let’s examine a few more details here. What else is given to the one who overcomes?

 

Revelation 10:8-11 should provide us with a clue regarding this.

Revelation 10:8-11

8 Then the voice that I had heard from heaven spoke to me once more: “Go, take the scroll that lies open in the hand of the angel who is standing on the sea and on the land.”

9 So I went to the angel and asked him to give me the little scroll. He said to me, “Take it and eat it. It will turn your stomach sour, but ‘in your mouth it will be as sweet as honey.” 10 I took the little scroll from the angel’s hand and ate it. It tasted as sweet as honey in my mouth, but when I had eaten it, my stomach turned sour. 11 Then I was told, “You must prophesy again about many peoples, nations, languages and kings.”

John was given the open scroll that Jesus had opened, and his task was to deliver the word he received and consumed to many peoples, nations, languages, and kings. Jesus did not entrust the open scroll to just anyone, but to one with a crucial mission, akin to Paul and the disciples, to make numerous children of the word being received in that era, our era.

 

Let us now turn to Revelation 22 to comprehend the relationship of this in greater detail. And let us read further about the messenger who must be sent.

Revelation  22:8,16-17

8 I, John, am the one who heard and saw these things. And when I had heard and seen them, I fell down to worship at the feet of the angel who had been showing them to me.

16 “I, Jesus, have sent my angel to give you[a] this testimony for the churches. I am the Root and the Offspring of David, and the bright Morning Star.”

17 The Spirit and the bride say, “Come!” And let the one who hears say, “Come!” Let the one who is thirsty come; and let the one who wishes take the free gift of the water of life.

The text suggests that John was witnessing these revelations unfold before him. After seeing all these things, he fell down at the feet of the angel who was showing them to him. 

 

Then, Jesus says, “I have sent my angel or messenger to the churches.” Jesus refers to Himself in a particular way. 

 

Did you notice what Jesus called Himself at the end of verse 16? He said, “I am the offspring of David and the morning star that he also promised to give the one who overcomes in Revelation 2.”

 

This is no accident. There are no accidents in the Bible.

 

The text then directs our attention to Revelation chapter 19, specifically the verse that talks about the wedding at the second coming.

Revelation 19:6-9

6 Then I heard what sounded like a great multitude, like the roar of rushing waters and like loud peals of thunder, shouting:

“Hallelujah!

    For our Lord God Almighty reigns.

7 Let us rejoice and be glad

    and give him glory!

For the wedding of the Lamb has come,

    and his bride has made herself ready.

8 Fine linen, bright and clean,

    was given her to wear.”

(Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of God’s holy people.)

9 Then the angel said to me, “Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!” And he added, “These are the true words of God.”

What was promised?

 

It was foretold that the bride would prepare herself with fine linen for the wedding banquet of the Lamb, and blessed are those invited. As we saw in Revelation 22, the Spirit and the bride say, “Come, come, come to the wedding banquet,” for the wedding banquet is taking place. But where must it occur?

 

At the same place where the Lamb is. And where is the Lamb?

 

In Revelation 14, the Lamb is at Mount Zion.

 

That is the location of the wedding banquet. That is where it will transpire. And there are some details we’ll cover now about how we know and how we can find this location, and what we need to be present at this location.

 

Let’s revisit Matthew 22:3-4, because they discuss what food will be served at the wedding banquet.

Matthew 22:3-4

3 He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come.

4 “Then he sent some more servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner: My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’

God’s oxen and fattened cattle have been made ready. What do these figurative representations mean? 

 

Because these are the things that will be offered at the wedding banquet, the meal that will be given there. So if we want to understand if we’re at Mount Zion and the wedding banquet is taking place, this needs to be served at that wedding banquet.

 

Let’s now think back to the figurative animals in prophecy. Do we remember the animals of betrayal, the animals of destruction, and the animals of salvation? One of the animals of salvation was the oxen.

 

And do we remember what the oxen’s job was? What does an oxen do? They’re workers. And in 1 Corinthians 9:9-10, Paul refers to oxen as people, workers of God who are treading the grain and who will take part in the harvest. But these oxen are being eaten.

 

They are being butchered, which is not a good thing. Why are God’s workers being butchered? What happened to them that they are now being butchered and served up at the wedding banquet? Oh, we’re covering many new things today. What may have happened to them at the second coming that they are being butchered?

 

Rebellion happens before destruction. Those that once belonged to God betrayed and are now being butchered and offered at the wedding banquet. And who ate them or who destroyed them? Those that are now fattened, which means they just had a meal. Destroyers.

 

Who destroyed the betrayers? Think back to the parable in the time of Joseph, right? The seven healthy cows were eaten by the seven skinny cows. Essentially, the same logic applies here. What does it mean that they are butchered? They were judged by the word of testimony.

 

This is the first time we’re hearing this. Again, we will see this again, so don’t worry if you’re still not connecting the dots. But it’s important to mention these things because if a place claims to be where the wedding banquet is, they need to have a proper explanation of the food that is being offered there. Who, what, when, where, why, and how – these details must be mentioned, or that place is not the true wedding banquet.

 

So, more details as to what we should be looking for. At this wedding banquet, God expects everyone to be prepared, to be qualified. And there are three things needed for that person to be qualified.

 

At the end of Matthew 22, someone is thrown out of the wedding banquet because of what? What were they thrown out for? What were they lacking? They didn’t have the right clothes on. 


Qualifications: 

1. One needs to be wearing their wedding clothes (heart, word, and actions | Deeds).

And we talked about figurative clothes, right? Hearts, actions, and doctrine. One’s clothes were not on.

In Matthew 25, we see the parable of two types of virgins. They were waiting for the master to return so that they could marry the master. And what other two things are also necessary for the wedding banquet?

 

2. The lamp (the Word)

3. The oil (The Word of Testimony)

 

All of these things are needed for the wedding banquet of the Lamb. So, let’s be prepared with all of these things at the time of the second coming, so that we are not caught off guard.



4. Satan’s Groom and Bride

Revelation 18:23

The light of a lamp will never shine in you again.

The voice of bridegroom and bride will never be heard in you again.

Your merchants were the world’s important people. By your magic spell all the nations were led astray.

So, what was said here about the judgment of Babylon and what will be no more when Babylon is judged? The voice of the bridegroom and the bride will not be heard again.

 

We know that the bridegroom, or the groom, represents a spirit. The bridegroom is the devil or Satan, and also the demons that are in Babylon.

 

And they work through brides, or flesh. These brides deliver their own types of seed and produce their own types of children. We must not be a part of this wedding banquet that is happening. We don’t want to be those who are married to demons, as it says in Revelation 18:2-3.

 

That’s not where I want to be. I don’t want to be at a place like this because there is one who produces many children.

 

Revelation 17:1-5 talks about the prostitute, and it also calls this prostitute a mother. Meaning, this prostitute produces others. I don’t want this to be me, and I don’t want to be a part of a place like this. No, not me, not mine, and not anyone here in this class. So, we have to discern.

 

If these places are prophesied to appear, they will appear. And they have already appeared. So, we have to discern.



5. Figurative Widow and Orphan

What about the widow and the orphans?

 

Satan has his groom and bride. A widow is one who was once married to God but betrayed Him. So, think of a betrayer as a widow.

 

Once of God, and things were going well. And they had a wonderful congregation that was growing well. But something happens, and God’s spirit leaves. Because God’s spirit leaves, there is no more room in that relationship. So, the pastor at this location now has a word that is no longer open and becomes a widow.

 

And the congregation becomes orphans in that situation, fatherless, because the spirit of God has left that place, and the truth is no longer being spoken there. We don’t want to be at this place either, because both of these places come to an end. Both of these places are judged at the second coming by God’s grace. May it come quickly.



Memorization

Galatians 4:19

My dear children, for whom I am again in the pains of childbirth until Christ is formed in you,

Let’s Us Discern

A Refutation of SCJ Lesson 54: “Secrets of Heaven, the Figurative Groom, Bride, Widow, and Orphan”

A Refutation Using “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story”


Imagine you’re attending a friend’s wedding. The ceremony is beautiful—the bride walks down the aisle, the groom waits with anticipation, vows are exchanged, and everyone celebrates the union of two people who love each other. As you watch, you think about the biblical imagery of Christ as the groom and the church as His bride. It’s a powerful metaphor that makes the wedding even more meaningful.

After the ceremony, you mention this to someone sitting next to you. “It’s beautiful how marriage reflects Christ’s love for the church,” you say.

But your companion responds with a puzzling statement: “Actually, that’s only the surface meaning. The real spiritual meaning is much deeper. The groom doesn’t represent Christ—it represents a spirit, any spirit. And the bride doesn’t represent the church—it represents flesh, any flesh. When a pastor receives the Holy Spirit, he becomes a groom. But if he betrays God, he becomes a widow—someone without a spirit. And his congregation becomes orphans.”

You’re confused. “But doesn’t Ephesians 5 say Christ is the groom and the church is the bride?”

“That’s milk thought,” your companion replies. “That’s the elementary understanding. As you mature spiritually, you’ll see that groom and bride are just general categories—spirit and flesh. Any pastor with the Holy Spirit is a groom. Any congregation is a bride. But when pastors betray God—which most have done—they become widows, and their congregations become orphans. These orphans need to leave their widow pastors and find the true groom who has the Holy Spirit at the second coming.”

Suddenly, what seemed like a straightforward biblical metaphor has become something entirely different. Christ isn’t the unique groom—any spirit-filled person can be a groom. The church isn’t the unique bride—any group of believers is a bride. And most importantly, you’re being told that your pastor is probably a “widow” (betrayer without the Holy Spirit) and you’re an “orphan” who needs to leave and find the “true groom.”

This is what happens in SCJ Lesson 54.

The lesson appears to be a Bible study about biblical metaphors—groom, bride, widow, and orphan. The instructor, Nate, uses Scripture passages, discusses the wedding banquet, and explains spiritual symbolism. Everything sounds biblical and theologically rich.

But beneath the surface, something devastating is happening. The lesson is systematically redefining biblical metaphors to accomplish several strategic goals:

  1. Strip Christ of His unique role as the Groom – Make “groom” a general category (any spirit) rather than Christ specifically
  2. Redefine pastors as potential “grooms” – Elevate human leaders to Christ’s role
  3. Accuse most pastors of betrayal – Label them as “widows” who lost the Holy Spirit
  4. Categorize church members as “orphans” – Make them feel abandoned and in need of rescue
  5. Prepare students to leave their churches – Frame leaving as escaping a “widow” to find the “true groom”
  6. Set up Chairman Lee as the “true groom” – The one who has the Holy Spirit at the second coming

By Lesson 54, students have invested 8 months and approximately 216+ hours. They’ve completed Lessons 52-53 on spiritual death, graves, and resurrection, accepting that churches are spiritual graveyards and believers are spiritually dead. Now, Lesson 54 builds on that foundation by teaching that pastors are “widows” (betrayers) and church members are “orphans” who need to leave and find the “true groom.”

The lesson’s stated hope—”To be qualified to enter the wedding banquet at the Second Coming!”—sounds biblical. But it’s actually preparing students to accept that:

  • Their pastors have betrayed God and lost the Holy Spirit (become widows)
  • They are spiritual orphans abandoned by their widow pastors
  • They must leave these widow pastors to find the true groom
  • The true groom is the one who has the Holy Spirit at the second coming (Chairman Lee)
  • Only those who leave their churches and join SCJ will enter the wedding banquet

This refutation will expose how Lesson 54 distorts Scripture’s teaching about Christ as the Groom and the church as His bride, how it manipulates students psychologically, and how it prepares them for the devastating instruction to abandon their churches and pastors. We’ll apply the frameworks from “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” to reveal the manipulation, and we’ll return to what Scripture actually teaches about Christ, the church, and the wedding banquet.

Let’s begin by understanding where students are in their journey and what this lesson is really accomplishing.


Part 1: Where Students Are—The Critical Threshold

The Journey So Far

By Lesson 54, students have traveled even further down SCJ’s path and are approaching a critical threshold:

Introductory Level (Lessons 1-30): The Parable Foundation

  • Learned that the Bible is written in “parables” requiring special interpretation
  • Accepted symbolic meanings: seed = word, field = heart/church, birds = spirits, etc.
  • Completed approximately 15-20 weeks (4-5 months)
  • Invested roughly 60-80 hours in classes alone

Intermediate Level (Lessons 31-54): Bible Logic

  • Learning how to connect Old Testament “patterns” with New Testament “fulfillment”
  • Completed Lessons 52-53 on spiritual death, graves, and resurrection
  • Now at Lesson 54, approximately 8 months into the program
  • Invested 216+ hours in total (classes, homework, review, test preparation)
  • Just completed or about to take their first major test (mentioned as April 25th in Lesson 52)

What’s Happened Psychologically:

By Lesson 54, students have:

  • Solidified deep relationships with instructors and fellow students over 8 months
  • Internalized the foundational premises about biblical interpretation and church failure
  • Increased sunk cost investment (216+ hours, 8 months of life)
  • Isolated further from outside perspectives (discouraged from discussing with pastors)
  • Built profound trust in the teaching system and instructors
  • Accepted the “death, grave, and resurrection” framework from Lessons 52-53
  • Likely completed their first test which validated the program’s seriousness and their commitment
  • Begun to view churches as spiritual graveyards and believers as spiritually dead

The Significance of This Timing:

Lesson 54 comes at a strategically critical point:

  1. After the test – Students have studied intensively and passed, creating accomplishment and deeper commitment
  2. After the “grave” teaching – Students have accepted that churches are spiritual graveyards where the spiritually dead gather
  3. Before the Advanced Level – Students are 24 lessons into the 30-lesson Intermediate Level, very close to the Revelation study where the most controversial teachings await
  4. At the threshold of explicit church abandonment – This lesson directly attacks pastors as “widows” (betrayers) and prepares students for the instruction to leave
  5. Emotionally and mentally exhausted – After 8 months of intensive study, students are fatigued and vulnerable to accepting more extreme teachings

The Emotional and Mental State

The lesson opens with revealing sections that expose SCJ’s strategy:

“Home Blessing” – Revelation 18:4: “Then I heard another voice from heaven say: ‘Come out of her, my people,’ so that you will not share in her sins, so that you will not receive any of her plagues.”

“Yeast of Heaven”: “What good are the things of the world like money, material possessions, honor and authority. If you die? They are useless. These things cannot give us life. The only thing we need is God. God alone is our savior. We must give thanks and be grateful for God’s grace in choosing us out of many people.”

What This Reveals:

  1. Direct command to leave – Revelation 18:4 is now being applied: “Come out of her, my people”
  2. Framing churches as “her” – The “her” in Revelation 18:4 (Babylon) is being equated with churches
  3. Creating urgency – You must come out to avoid sharing in sins and plagues
  4. Dismissing worldly concerns – Money, possessions, honor don’t matter—only “God” (SCJ’s teaching) matters
  5. Creating gratitude manipulation – “Be grateful for God’s grace in choosing us out of many people” makes students feel specially chosen and obligated
  6. Establishing exclusivity – “Out of many people” implies most aren’t chosen, creating elite status

The Stated Hope:

“To be qualified to enter the wedding banquet at the Second Coming!”

What This Means:

The lesson is now explicitly about qualification—meeting specific criteria to enter the wedding banquet. This shifts salvation from grace through faith in Christ to meeting SCJ’s requirements:

  • Understanding the “opened word”
  • Leaving your church (coming out of Babylon/graves)
  • Abandoning your “widow” pastor
  • Finding the “true groom” (Chairman Lee)
  • Joining SCJ (the bride who enters the banquet)

By framing this as “qualification,” SCJ makes salvation dependent on actions and organizational membership, not on Christ’s finished work.

The Review: Building on the Foundation

The lesson reviews Lessons 52-53:

Review Points:

“We looked at the figurative grave in the last lesson. The figurative grave represents an organization of false truth. It is a place where people whose spirits are dead are buried.

So, anyone who followed the Pharisees and Sadducees 2000 years ago were buried in spiritual graves, though they did not realize it. While they could walk, breathe, and eat physically, they were alive, but spiritually, they were dead inside. However, Jesus came to bring different types of resurrection.

He resurrected people physically, like Lazarus, but he also resurrected people spiritually as he spoke to them. As he spoke, he was fulfilling Ezekiel 37, about the valley of dry bones, bringing people to life with his words. So, resurrection is the spirit that comes to life by the word of life.

This is a summary; please refer to the full definition that we learned: a spirit that comes to life through the word of life. So, there were graves at the first coming. But as we saw in Revelation 18, there are also graves at the time of the second coming.

The second coming grave is called Babylon. And what does Revelation 18:4 say? ‘Come out of her, my people.’ When a person is resurrected and realizes they are in a grave, they do not stay there and accept the situation. Instead, they claw their way out with vigorous effort and passion, exclaiming, ‘Get me out of here. I want life!’

So, when one realizes they are in a spiritual grave, they should do the same thing: come out with vigorous effort and passion to get out of that location.”

What This Accomplishes:

  1. Reinforces the “grave” metaphor – Churches are graves, organizations of false truth
  2. Draws the first/second coming parallel – Just as Jews were in graves at the first coming, Christians are in graves at the second coming
  3. Explicitly names the grave “Babylon” – Churches are the Babylon of Revelation 18
  4. Commands immediate action – “Come out with vigorous effort and passion”
  5. Creates emotional urgency – The imagery of “clawing your way out” creates panic and desperation
  6. Frames leaving as survival – Staying in your church means remaining buried alive in a grave

This review ensures students have fully accepted the foundation before the lesson adds the next layer: that pastors are “widows” (betrayers) and church members are “orphans.”

The Setup: Gender and Spiritual Meaning

Before teaching about groom and bride, the instructor addresses a strategic concern:

The Instructor’s Statement:

“Let’s now discuss today’s lesson. There are some mindsets and things that I want us to keep in mind, as they will make this lesson much easier to understand.

One of the questions that has been asked a few times in the Q&A session is about the physical differences between men and women, and who is supposed to speak or not speak. Right? This has been a question in the church for over 2,000 years, based on two particular passages written by Paul.

However, before we delve into today’s lesson, I want us to truly comprehend what Paul meant. Let’s first read Galatians chapter three, also written by Paul, Galatians 3:26-29.”

Galatians 3:26-29: “So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.”

The Instructor’s Interpretation:

“Paul states that you are all sons of God through your faith in Jesus. Physically, what does a man possess that a woman does not have?

What distinguishes a man from a woman physically? What is the most crucial aspect? While there are many details, the most important thing a physical man has that a physical woman does not is seed.

I’m not referring to a body part but specifically what that body part produces. A man has seed, which a woman does not have.

When Paul says you are all sons of God through Christ, he implies that you all have the seed. And what is the seed, everyone? Can we all hold up the seed?

Does everyone have their seed with them? You all have the seed, which makes you sons.

So this is the reason why there is no male and no female physically. Remember, God does not look at physical appearance when seeking someone to work through. He looks at their heart, as stated in 1 Samuel 16:7. The heart is much more important to God than their physical being.

God looks at the heart. And when he looks at the heart, he will look for whether this person has his word or not. Keeping this in mind, we need to understand the importance of the seed.

The seed is most important because spiritually, we should all be those who have the seed and be sons of God. But we are also called brides of Christ.

What does that mean? And are those two things contradictory? Of course, they are not contradictory.

But we have to think spiritually. If we think physically, we will become confused. So the spiritual aspect is what matters.

What does God see? What is on the inside? Please keep this in mind as we go over the lesson today.”

What This Setup Accomplishes:

  1. Addresses potential objections – Some students may be uncomfortable with the coming teaching about pastors as “grooms” and may raise biblical concerns about gender roles
  2. Uses Galatians 3:28 to blur distinctions – The passage about spiritual equality in Christ is used to erase the unique roles of Christ as Groom and the church as bride
  3. Reduces everything to “seed = word” – By making the key distinction about having the “seed” (word), the instructor prepares students to accept that anyone with the word can be a “groom”
  4. Emphasizes “thinking spiritually” – This will be used to dismiss objections: “You’re thinking physically; think spiritually”
  5. Prepares for role confusion – If being a “son” (having seed) and being a “bride” aren’t contradictory, then pastors can be “grooms” and congregations can be “brides”
  6. Sets up the coming distortion – The lesson will teach that “groom = spirit” and “bride = flesh,” making these general categories rather than specific to Christ and the church

The Danger:

This setup is brilliant manipulation. By using a legitimate passage about spiritual equality (Galatians 3:28) and a legitimate principle (God looks at the heart), the instructor creates permission to completely redefine biblical metaphors. Students who might object to calling pastors “grooms” (a role reserved for Christ) will be told they’re “thinking physically” and need to “think spiritually.”


Part 2: The Lesson’s Content—What SCJ Teaches

The Main Teaching: Figurative Groom and Bride

The lesson’s main section focuses on redefining the biblical metaphors of groom and bride.

The Instructor’s Opening:

“I hope that the second coming is becoming clearer. Previously, it was a bit of a blurry picture. We had some idea, but we really didn’t know the details. However, now that we’re learning the open word, the details are beginning to be filled in, especially regarding what we’ll be discussing today.

The groom represents a spirit, and the bride represents flesh.

The widow represents a pastor who has betrayed and is without the Holy Spirit.

An orphan would be a believer belonging to the pastor who has betrayed, meaning that pastor’s congregation.”

What This Teaches:

  1. Groom = spirit (any spirit) – Not Christ specifically, but any spirit
  2. Bride = flesh (any flesh) – Not the church specifically, but any flesh
  3. Widow = betrayed pastor without the Holy Spirit – Most pastors fall into this category
  4. Orphan = congregation of a betrayed pastor – Most church members are orphans

The Logic Presented:

“Hopefully, as we’ve been studying, the logic behind this is already starting to make sense.

A pastor is supposed to be able to receive the seed from above, the word from above, and give that word or seed that he has received to his congregation. That’s how things are supposed to work.

However, if a pastor becomes a widow, it means they are no longer receiving the word from above but receiving it from a different source, or not receiving it at all. This is the logic behind what we’ll be discussing today.”

What This Means:

  • Pastors are supposed to be “grooms” – They receive the seed (word) from above and give it to their congregations (brides)
  • Most pastors have become “widows” – They’ve betrayed God and no longer receive the word from above
  • Their congregations are “orphans” – Abandoned by their widow pastors, without the true word
  • Students need to leave – Orphans must leave their widow pastors and find the true groom

The Old Testament Prophecy: Hosea 2

The lesson uses Hosea 2:19-20 as the foundational prophecy:

Hosea 2:19-20: “I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion. I will betroth you in faithfulness, and you will acknowledge the Lord.”

The Instructor’s Interpretation:

“I will betroth you. Let’s understand this a little bit here. This is an Old Testament prophecy.

If you look at all of Hosea chapter 2, God, at the beginning of the chapter, is lamenting about one who became like a harlot or prostitute. And how this harlot or prostitute had many different other husbands, figuratively speaking. And how God would basically divorce that harlot or prostitute.

But at the end of the chapter, starting from verse 19, there would be a different one that He would then betroth. This is why this ‘you’ here (I will betroth you) is actually very important. Because when God says this one has no longer kept my covenant, God then moves on to another one.

So keep in mind that there is a different ‘you’ here. The word betrothed represents another word for saying marry. So God is saying I will marry a different you.

And this you that I will betroth will be betrothed in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion, in faithfulness and acknowledgment of the Lord. Let’s understand what this means in more detail and how it plays out at the time of the first coming and also the time of the second coming as well.”

What This Sets Up:

  1. God divorced the first “you” – Israel/the first bride was unfaithful
  2. God will marry a different “you” – A new bride at the first coming (the church)
  3. The pattern repeats – At the second coming, God will divorce the church and marry a new bride (SCJ)
  4. SCJ is the “different you” – The new bride betrothed in righteousness at the second coming

This interpretation sets up SCJ’s core claim: just as God moved from Israel to the church at the first coming, He’s moving from the church to SCJ at the second coming.

Physical and Spiritual Characteristics

The lesson then outlines physical and spiritual characteristics:

Physical Characteristics of Groom and Bride:

“Romans 1:20 suggests that God uses physical things to explain Himself. He uses His creation to represent Himself.

And Hosea 12:10 states that God speaks through the prophets in dreams, parables, and visions. So, as we understand the physical characteristics, we can comprehend the spiritual characteristics. This is why we study the parables in the first place.

  1. The groom gives the seed to the bride, and the result of that is a child.

These are the physical characteristics that God designed and created for a reason. Another crucial aspect is that before the seed is shared in normal or biblical circumstances, a covenant is established between the groom and the bride.

The covenant represents a serious promise, a vow that the two make to never break their commitment and remain together forever. It is within this covenant relationship that the seed is transferred in normal circumstances. Keep these points in mind.”

Spiritual (True) Meaning:

“Remember, spirit and flesh. What does that mean?”

What This Teaches:

The lesson is preparing to teach that:

  1. Groom (spirit) gives seed (word) to bride (flesh) – This is the spiritual pattern
  2. The result is children – Spiritual children (new believers)
  3. A covenant must exist – The relationship is based on a covenant
  4. When the covenant is broken – The groom becomes a widow (loses the spirit)

This framework allows SCJ to:

  • Make any pastor with the Holy Spirit a “groom”
  • Make any congregation a “bride”
  • Accuse pastors of breaking the covenant (betrayal)
  • Label betrayed pastors as “widows” without the Holy Spirit
  • Call their congregations “orphans” who need to leave

What’s Coming in the Full Lesson

Based on the lesson excerpt and SCJ’s standard teaching pattern, the full lesson will likely include:

  1. First Coming Application – How Jesus was the groom and the disciples were the bride; how the Pharisees were “widows” who had betrayed
  2. Second Coming Application – How Chairman Lee is the groom at the second coming; how traditional pastors are “widows” who have betrayed
  3. The Wedding Banquet – How only those who leave their widow pastors and join SCJ will enter the wedding banquet
  4. Qualification Requirements – Specific criteria for entering the banquet (understanding the opened word, joining SCJ, etc.)
  5. Urgency to Leave – Direct instruction or strong implication that students must leave their churches now

Part 3: Biblical Refutation—What Scripture Actually Teaches

Let’s examine what the Bible actually teaches about Christ as the Groom, the church as His bride, and the wedding banquet—and how this differs dramatically from SCJ’s distortions.

Christ as the Unique Groom

SCJ teaches that “groom = spirit” (any spirit) and that pastors with the Holy Spirit are “grooms.” But what does Scripture actually teach?

The Groom Is Christ, Not Any Spirit:

John 3:28-30 – John the Baptist said, “You yourselves can testify that I said, ‘I am not the Messiah but am sent ahead of him.’ The bride belongs to the bridegroom. The friend who attends the bridegroom waits and listens for him, and is full of joy when he hears the bridegroom’s voice. That joy is mine, and it is now complete. He must become greater; I must become less.”

John the Baptist, filled with the Holy Spirit from birth (Luke 1:15), explicitly says:

  • “I am not the Messiah” – He’s not the groom
  • “The bride belongs to the bridegroom” – There’s one bridegroom (Christ), not many
  • “The friend who attends the bridegroom” – John is the friend, not a groom himself
  • “He must become greater; I must become less” – Christ alone is exalted as the groom

If having the Holy Spirit made someone a “groom,” John the Baptist—filled with the Spirit from birth—would be a groom. But he explicitly denies this. He’s the friend of the groom, not a groom himself.

Ephesians 5:25-32 – “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church—for we are members of his body. ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.”

Paul explicitly states:

  • “Christ loved the church” – Christ is the groom, the church is the bride
  • “Christ gave himself up for her” – The groom died for the bride
  • “To present her to himself” – Christ will present the church to Himself
  • “This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church” – The marriage metaphor is specifically about Christ and the church, not a general pattern

This isn’t a general principle that “any spirit (groom) can marry any flesh (bride).” It’s a specific, unique relationship between Christ and His church.

Revelation 19:7-9 – “Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear. (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of God’s holy people.) Then the angel said to me, ‘Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!’ And he added, ‘These are the true words of God.'”

The wedding is of the Lamb (Christ) and His bride (the church). This is the culmination of redemptive history, not a repeating pattern where different “grooms” marry different “brides” at different times.

Revelation 21:2, 9 – “I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband… One of the seven angels who had the seven bowls full of the seven last plagues came and said to me, ‘Come, I will show you the bride, the wife of the Lamb.'”

The bride is the wife of the Lamb—Christ’s unique bride, not one of many brides married to different grooms.

The Point:

Scripture consistently presents Christ as the unique Groom and the church as His unique bride. This isn’t a general category where:

  • Any spirit = groom
  • Any flesh = bride
  • Any pastor with the Holy Spirit = groom
  • Any congregation = bride

It’s a specific, exclusive, covenant relationship between Christ and His church.

Pastors Are Not “Grooms”

SCJ teaches that pastors are supposed to be “grooms” who receive the word from above and give it to their congregations (brides). But what does Scripture teach about pastoral roles?

Pastors Are Shepherds, Not Grooms:

John 21:15-17 – Jesus said to Peter, “Feed my lambs… Take care of my sheep… Feed my sheep.”

Jesus commissions Peter to feed and care for His sheep—not to be a groom to a bride. The sheep belong to Jesus; Peter is the under-shepherd caring for them on Jesus’s behalf.

1 Peter 5:1-4 – “To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elder and a witness of Christ’s sufferings who also will share in the glory to be revealed: Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, watching over them—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not pursuing dishonest gain, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away.”

Peter calls pastors/elders to:

  • “Be shepherds of God’s flock” – They’re shepherds, not grooms
  • “God’s flock that is under your care” – The flock belongs to God, not to the pastors
  • “Not lording it over those entrusted to you” – They don’t own the people as a groom owns a bride
  • “When the Chief Shepherd appears” – Jesus is the Chief Shepherd; pastors are under-shepherds

Acts 20:28 – “Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers. Be shepherds of the church of God, which he bought with his own blood.”

Paul tells the Ephesian elders:

  • “The flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers” – They’re overseers/shepherds
  • “The church of God, which he bought with his own blood” – The church belongs to God/Christ who bought her; pastors don’t own her as grooms

The Biblical Pastoral Roles:

Scripture describes pastors as:

  • Shepherds – Caring for Christ’s sheep (John 21:15-17, 1 Peter 5:1-4)
  • Overseers/Elders – Watching over the flock (Acts 20:28, 1 Timothy 3:1-7)
  • Servants – Serving the church (2 Corinthians 4:5)
  • Stewards – Managing God’s household (1 Corinthians 4:1-2, Titus 1:7)
  • Examples – Modeling faithful living (1 Peter 5:3, 1 Timothy 4:12)

Never as:

  • Grooms – This role belongs to Christ alone
  • Owners – The church belongs to Christ, not pastors
  • Mediators – Christ is the one mediator (1 Timothy 2:5)
  • Husbands to the congregation – The church is Christ’s bride, not pastors’ brides

The Danger of SCJ’s Teaching:

By making pastors “grooms,” SCJ:

  1. Usurps Christ’s unique role – Takes what belongs to Christ alone and gives it to human leaders
  2. Elevates human leaders inappropriately – Makes pastors into Christ-like figures
  3. Sets up for accusation – Once pastors are “grooms,” they can be accused of becoming “widows” (betrayers)
  4. Prepares for Chairman Lee worship – If pastors can be grooms, Chairman Lee can be the “true groom” at the second coming
  5. Distorts pastoral authority – Makes the pastor-congregation relationship like marriage rather than shepherding

The Church as Christ’s Unique Bride

SCJ teaches that “bride = flesh” (any flesh) and that congregations are brides to their pastor-grooms. But what does Scripture teach?

The Church Universal Is Christ’s Bride:

2 Corinthians 11:2 – “I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.”

Paul says:

  • “I promised you to one husband, to Christ” – The church is promised to Christ, not to Paul or any human leader
  • “So that I might present you as a pure virgin to him” – Paul’s role is to present the church to Christ, not to be her husband himself

Paul, an apostle with the Holy Spirit, doesn’t claim to be the groom. He’s preparing the bride for her one husband—Christ.

Ephesians 5:25-27 – “Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.”

Christ:

  • Loved the church – The groom loves the bride
  • Gave himself up for her – The groom died for the bride
  • Makes her holy – The groom sanctifies the bride
  • Will present her to himself – The groom will receive the bride

This is Christ’s work for His church, not a pattern repeated by multiple “grooms” with multiple “brides.”

Revelation 19:7-8 – “For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear.”

There is one wedding—of the Lamb and His bride. Not multiple weddings of different grooms with different brides.

The Point:

The church universal—all true believers throughout history—is Christ’s unique bride. Individual congregations aren’t separate “brides” married to their pastors. They’re all part of the one bride (the church) married to the one Groom (Christ).

Hosea 2 in Context

SCJ uses Hosea 2:19-20 to teach that God divorced Israel and married the church at the first coming, and will divorce the church and marry SCJ at the second coming. But what does Hosea 2 actually teach?

The Context of Hosea:

The book of Hosea is about God’s relationship with Israel. God commands Hosea to marry an unfaithful woman (Gomer) as a living parable of God’s relationship with unfaithful Israel.

Hosea 1:2 – “When the LORD began to speak through Hosea, the LORD said to him, ‘Go, marry a promiscuous woman and have children with her, for like an adulterous wife this land is guilty of unfaithfulness to the LORD.'”

Hosea 2:1-13 – God describes Israel’s unfaithfulness, how she pursued other lovers (false gods), and how He will discipline her.

Hosea 2:14-23 – God promises restoration:

Hosea 2:14-16 – “Therefore I am now going to allure her; I will lead her into the wilderness and speak tenderly to her. There I will give her back her vineyards, and will make the Valley of Achor a door of hope. There she will respond as in the days of her youth, as in the day she came up out of Egypt. ‘In that day,’ declares the LORD, ‘you will call me “my husband”; you will no longer call me “my master.”‘”

Hosea 2:19-20 – “I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion. I will betroth you in faithfulness, and you will acknowledge the LORD.”

Hosea 2:23 – “I will plant her for myself in the land; I will show my love to the one I called ‘Not my loved one.’ I will say to those called ‘Not my people,’ ‘You are my people’; and they will say, ‘You are my God.'”

What This Means:

  1. God is speaking about Israel – The “you” in verses 19-20 is Israel, not a completely different entity
  2. God promises restoration, not replacement – He will restore His relationship with Israel, not divorce her and marry someone else
  3. The “betrothal” is renewal – God will renew His covenant with Israel, establishing it forever in righteousness
  4. The fulfillment includes Gentiles – Verse 23 (“Not my people” will become “my people”) is quoted in Romans 9:25-26 to show that Gentiles are included in God’s people

Romans 9:25-26 – “As he says in Hosea: ‘I will call them “my people” who are not my people; and I will call her “my loved one” who is not my loved one,’ and, ‘In the very place where it was said to them, “You are not my people,” there they will be called “children of the living God.”‘”

Paul interprets Hosea as God including Gentiles in His people, not as God divorcing Israel and marrying a completely different bride.

Romans 11:1-2 – “I ask then: Did God reject his people? By no means! I am an Israelite myself, a descendant of Abraham, from the tribe of Benjamin. God did not reject his people, whom he foreknew.”

Paul explicitly says God did not reject Israel. The church isn’t a replacement bride; it’s the fulfillment of God’s promise to include Gentiles in His one people.

The Point:

Hosea 2 is about God’s faithfulness to restore His relationship with Israel, not about God divorcing one bride and marrying another. The church isn’t a “different you” that replaced Israel; it’s the fulfillment of God’s promise to include Gentiles in His one people. And there’s certainly no biblical basis for claiming God will divorce the church and marry SCJ at a “second coming.”

The Wedding Banquet: Who’s Invited?

SCJ teaches that only those who meet specific “qualifications”—understanding the opened word, leaving their churches, joining SCJ—will enter the wedding banquet. But what does Scripture teach?

The Parable of the Wedding Banquet (Matthew 22:1-14):

Jesus tells a parable about a king who prepares a wedding banquet for his son. Let’s examine it carefully:

Matthew 22:1-10 – “Jesus spoke to them again in parables, saying: ‘The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come. Then he sent some more servants and said, “Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner: My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.” But they paid no attention and went off—one to his field, another to his business. The rest seized his servants, mistreated them and killed them. The king was enraged. He sent his army and destroyed those murderers and burned their city. Then he said to his servants, “The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come. So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.” So the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.'”

What This Teaches:

  1. The first invited guests refused – Israel rejected the invitation to the kingdom
  2. The invitation went to others – The gospel went to the Gentiles
  3. “Anyone you find” – The invitation is broad and inclusive
  4. “The bad as well as the good” – Both sinners and righteous are invited
  5. “The wedding hall was filled” – Many people enter, not just 144,000

Matthew 22:11-14 – “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes. He asked, ‘How did you get in here without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless. Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’ For many are invited, but few are chosen.”

What About the Wedding Clothes?

SCJ will likely use this passage to teach that the “wedding clothes” represent understanding the opened word or meeting their qualifications. But what do the wedding clothes actually represent?

Revelation 19:7-8 – “For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear. (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of God’s holy people.)”

The wedding clothes are:

  • Fine linen, bright and clean – Purity and righteousness
  • Given to her to wear – Not earned, but given
  • The righteous acts of God’s holy people – The result of God’s work in believers

Isaiah 61:10 – “I delight greatly in the LORD; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.”

The wedding garment is:

  • Garments of salvation – Salvation itself
  • A robe of his righteousness – God’s righteousness, not our own
  • Given by God – “He has clothed me”

The Point:

The “qualification” for the wedding banquet is wearing the wedding garment—which is Christ’s righteousness given to believers through faith. It’s not:

  • Understanding complex symbolic interpretations
  • Leaving your church
  • Joining the right organization
  • Meeting performance-based criteria

It’s receiving Christ’s righteousness by faith.

Who’s Invited?

John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

Revelation 22:17 – “The Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’ And let the one who hears say, ‘Come!’ Let the one who is thirsty come; and let the one who wishes take the free gift of the water of life.”

The invitation is to:

  • “Whoever believes” – Anyone who trusts in Christ
  • “The one who is thirsty” – Anyone who recognizes their need
  • “The one who wishes” – Anyone who desires
  • “Take the free gift” – It’s free, not earned by meeting qualifications

The wedding banquet isn’t exclusive to 144,000 SCJ members who understand the opened word. It’s open to all who believe in Christ and receive His righteousness by faith.


Part 4: Connecting to the 30 Chapters—Frameworks for Discernment

Let’s apply the comprehensive frameworks from “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” to evaluate Lesson 54 systematically.

Lens 1: The Two Lenses Framework (Chapters 1-2)

Chapter 1 and 2 of “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” present two fundamentally different ways of reading Scripture and evaluating spiritual claims:

Lens One: The Divine Blueprint

  • Scripture interprets Scripture
  • Christ is the center and fulfillment
  • The gospel is simple and accessible
  • Salvation is by grace through faith
  • The Holy Spirit guides all believers
  • The church universal is God’s people

Lens Two: The Cult Playbook

  • Special interpretation required
  • A human leader is essential
  • Complex, exclusive knowledge needed
  • Salvation requires organizational membership
  • Only select people can understand truth
  • One group exclusively represents God

Applying This to Lesson 54:

The lesson uses Lens One language extensively—it quotes Scripture, discusses biblical metaphors like groom and bride, and references the wedding banquet.

But it’s operating through Lens Two:

Special interpretation required:

  • “Groom” doesn’t mean Christ; it means any spirit
  • “Bride” doesn’t mean the church; it means any flesh
  • Pastors are “grooms” who can become “widows”
  • Congregations are “brides” who can become “orphans”

A human leader is essential:

  • The “true groom” at the second coming (Chairman Lee) is necessary
  • Pastors who were “grooms” have become “widows” (betrayers)
  • Students must find the “true groom” to enter the wedding banquet

Complex, exclusive knowledge:

  • Understanding that groom = spirit and bride = flesh requires “spiritual thinking”
  • Recognizing that your pastor is a “widow” requires the “opened word”
  • Knowing the qualifications for the wedding banquet requires SCJ’s teaching

Salvation requires organizational membership:

  • Only those who leave their “widow” pastors will enter the banquet
  • Only those who find the “true groom” (join SCJ) will be qualified
  • The wedding banquet is for those who “come out of Babylon” (leave churches)

Only select people understand:

  • “If we think physically, we will become confused”
  • “We have to think spiritually”
  • Most Christians don’t understand these “secrets of heaven”

One group exclusively represents God:

  • SCJ is the bride who enters the wedding banquet
  • Traditional churches are Babylon that must be left
  • Chairman Lee is the true groom at the second coming

Chapter 2 of “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” warns: “The most effective deception uses the language of Lens One while operating through Lens Two. It sounds biblical, quotes Scripture extensively, and appears to honor God’s word—but underneath, it’s building dependence on human interpretation, organizational membership, and exclusive knowledge.”

Lesson 54 perfectly illustrates this deception. It uses biblical passages about groom, bride, and the wedding banquet, but it’s actually teaching that Christ isn’t the unique Groom, pastors are betrayers, churches must be abandoned, and salvation requires joining SCJ.

Lens 2: The Widow and Orphan Accusation (Chapter 5)

While “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” doesn’t have a chapter specifically titled “The Widow and Orphan Accusation,” Chapter 5 addresses how cults redefine biblical categories to create “us vs. them” mentalities and justify leaving churches.

The Pattern:

Cultic groups typically:

  1. Redefine biblical terms – Take words with specific biblical meanings and make them general categories
  2. Apply negative terms to outsiders – Use biblical language of judgment to condemn those outside the group
  3. Create rescue narratives – Frame joining the group as rescuing people from danger
  4. Justify separation – Make leaving churches seem like biblical obedience
  5. Elevate the leader – Position the group’s leader as the solution to the problem

How Lesson 54 Does This:

Redefines biblical terms:

  • “Groom” = any spirit (not Christ specifically)
  • “Bride” = any flesh (not the church specifically)
  • “Widow” = pastor who betrayed and lost the Holy Spirit
  • “Orphan” = congregation of a betrayed pastor

Applies negative terms to outsiders:

  • Most pastors are “widows” (betrayers without the Holy Spirit)
  • Most church members are “orphans” (abandoned by their widow pastors)
  • Churches are “Babylon” that must be left
  • Staying in church means remaining in a spiritual grave

Creates rescue narratives:

  • Students are “orphans” who need to be rescued
  • They must leave their “widow” pastors
  • They must find the “true groom” who has the Holy Spirit
  • Only then can they enter the wedding banquet

Justifies separation:

  • Revelation 18:4 – “Come out of her, my people”
  • “Come out with vigorous effort and passion”
  • Staying means sharing in Babylon’s sins and plagues
  • Leaving is obedience to God’s command

Elevates the leader:

  • The “true groom” at the second coming (Chairman Lee) has the Holy Spirit
  • He’s the one who can give the word of life
  • Finding him is necessary for entering the wedding banquet
  • He’s the fulfillment of Hosea 2:19-20

The Biblical Reality:

The terms “widow” and “orphan” in Scripture have specific meanings:

Widows in Scripture:

1 Timothy 5:3-16 – Paul gives detailed instructions about caring for widows in the church. Widows are women whose husbands have died, not pastors who have betrayed.

James 1:27 – “Religion that God our Father accepts as pure and faultless is this: to look after orphans and widows in their distress and to keep oneself from being polluted by the world.”

Widows are vulnerable people who need care, not pastors who need to be abandoned.

Orphans in Scripture:

James 1:27 – “To look after orphans and widows in their distress.”

John 14:18 – Jesus said, “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.”

Orphans are children without parents who need care. Jesus promises His disciples He won’t leave them as orphans—He’ll come to them through the Holy Spirit. This is the opposite of SCJ’s teaching that church members are orphans who must leave their churches.

The Distortion:

SCJ takes terms that describe vulnerable people needing care (widows and orphans) and weaponizes them to:

  • Accuse pastors of betrayal
  • Make church members feel abandoned
  • Create urgency to leave churches
  • Position SCJ as the rescuer

This is a profound distortion of Scripture’s teaching about caring for the vulnerable.

Chapter 5 of “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” emphasizes: “When a group redefines biblical terms to create categories of insiders (rescued) and outsiders (condemned), they’re not just making theological claims—they’re implementing control tactics. By making students feel like ‘orphans’ who need to be rescued from ‘widow’ pastors, SCJ creates emotional urgency to leave churches and join their organization. This manipulation uses biblical language to accomplish decidedly unbiblical goals.”

Lens 3: The Betrayal-Destruction-Salvation Pattern (Chapter 6)

Chapter 6 of “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” explains how SCJ uses a recurring biblical pattern to justify their existence: betrayal leads to destruction, which leads to salvation through a new work.

How Lesson 54 Fits This Pattern:

Betrayal:

  • Pastors have betrayed God
  • They no longer receive the word from above
  • They’ve broken the covenant
  • They’ve become “widows” without the Holy Spirit

Destruction:

  • Churches have become Babylon
  • Congregations have become “orphans”
  • The spiritual relationship is broken
  • People are trapped in spiritual graves

Salvation:

  • God raises up a new work (SCJ) at the second coming
  • The “true groom” (Chairman Lee) has the Holy Spirit
  • People must leave their widow pastors (come out of Babylon)
  • Those who join SCJ enter the wedding banquet

The First/Second Coming Parallel:

The lesson will likely draw this parallel:

At the First Coming:

  • Jewish leaders betrayed God
  • They became “widows” without the Holy Spirit
  • Their followers were “orphans”
  • Jesus came as the true groom
  • Those who left the Jewish leaders and followed Jesus were saved

At the Second Coming:

  • Christian pastors have betrayed God
  • They’ve become “widows” without the Holy Spirit
  • Their congregations are “orphans”
  • Chairman Lee is the true groom
  • Those who leave their pastors and join SCJ will be saved

The Biblical Problems:

1. Jesus Promised to Be with His Church Always:

Matthew 28:20 – “And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

If all pastors have become “widows” without the Holy Spirit, Jesus broke His promise. But Jesus cannot fail.

2. The Holy Spirit Dwells in All Believers:

Romans 8:9 – “You, however, are not in the realm of the flesh but are in the realm of the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, they do not belong to Christ.”

If someone belongs to Christ, they have the Spirit. SCJ’s claim that pastors who belong to Christ have become “widows” without the Spirit contradicts this clear teaching.

1 Corinthians 3:16 – “Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst?”

The church is God’s temple where His Spirit dwells. The church hasn’t become a widow without the Spirit.

3. Christ Will Never Leave His Bride:

Hebrews 13:5 – “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.”

Christ promised never to leave His people. If the church has become a widow (without Christ), He broke His promise. But Christ is faithful.

4. The Gates of Hades Will Not Overcome the Church:

Matthew 16:18 – “And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it.”

If all churches have become Babylon and all pastors have become widows, the gates of Hades overcame the church, and Jesus’s promise failed. But Jesus cannot fail.

Chapter 6 of “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” emphasizes: “SCJ’s betrayal-destruction-salvation pattern requires believing that Christianity completely failed until SCJ appeared. This contradicts Jesus’s promises, undermines confidence in God’s faithfulness, and ignores the countless faithful believers and pastors throughout 2,000 years of church history. God has always preserved His people. The church universal has never become a widow without the Holy Spirit.”

Lens 4: The Wedding Banquet Manipulation (Chapter 18)

While “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” may not have a chapter specifically titled “The Wedding Banquet Manipulation,” the principles from various chapters apply to how SCJ distorts this teaching.

SCJ’s Wedding Banquet Teaching:

Based on the lesson and SCJ’s standard doctrine, they teach:

  1. The wedding banquet is exclusive – Only 144,000 will enter (all SCJ members)
  2. Qualification is required – You must meet specific criteria to enter
  3. The criteria include:
    • Understanding the opened word
    • Leaving your church (coming out of Babylon)
    • Abandoning your widow pastor
    • Finding the true groom (Chairman Lee)
    • Joining SCJ (becoming part of the bride)
  4. The wedding is happening now – At the second coming (which SCJ claims is now)
  5. Urgency is necessary – You must act now to be qualified

The Biblical Reality:

The Wedding Banquet Is Inclusive:

Matthew 22:9-10 – “So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.’ So the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good, and the wedding hall was filled with guests.”

The invitation goes to “anyone you find”—both bad and good. The hall is filled with guests, not limited to 144,000.

Revelation 7:9 – “After this I looked, and there before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the throne and before the Lamb.”

The redeemed are a “great multitude that no one could count”—not 144,000.

The Qualification Is Faith in Christ:

John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

“Whoever believes” is qualified—not “whoever understands the opened word and joins SCJ.”

Romans 10:9-10 – “If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.”

Salvation (qualification for the banquet) comes through faith in Christ, not through organizational membership.

The Wedding Garment Is Christ’s Righteousness:

Revelation 19:7-8 – “Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear. (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of God’s holy people.)”

The wedding garment is given, not earned. It represents the righteousness of Christ imputed to believers.

Isaiah 61:10 – “For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness.”

God clothes believers with salvation and His righteousness. This is the wedding garment, not understanding SCJ’s teaching.

The Wedding Is Future:

Revelation 19:7 – “For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready.”

The wedding of the Lamb is a future event when Christ returns, not something happening now through SCJ.

Revelation 21:2 – “I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband.”

The consummation of the marriage is when the New Jerusalem comes down from heaven—the final state, not current events in SCJ’s organization.

The Point:

SCJ’s teaching about the wedding banquet:

  • Makes it exclusive (144,000) when Scripture shows it’s inclusive (great multitude)
  • Makes qualification performance-based (understanding, leaving churches, joining SCJ) when Scripture shows it’s faith-based (believing in Christ)
  • Makes it current (happening now) when Scripture shows it’s future (when Christ returns)
  • Makes it organizational (SCJ membership) when Scripture shows it’s relational (union with Christ)

This distortion serves SCJ’s agenda: creating urgency for students to leave their churches and join SCJ to be “qualified” for the wedding banquet.

Lens 5: The “Come Out” Manipulation (Chapter 8)

Chapter 8 of “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” addresses how cults misuse Revelation 18:4 (“Come out of her, my people”) to justify leaving churches.

How Lesson 54 Uses This:

The lesson opens with Revelation 18:4 as the “Home Blessing”:

“Then I heard another voice from heaven say: ‘Come out of her, my people,’ so that you will not share in her sins, so that you will not receive any of her plagues.”

The review section explicitly applies this:

“The second coming grave is called Babylon. And what does Revelation 18:4 say? ‘Come out of her, my people.’ When a person is resurrected and realizes they are in a grave, they do not stay there and accept the situation. Instead, they claw their way out with vigorous effort and passion, exclaiming, ‘Get me out of here. I want life!’

So, when one realizes they are in a spiritual grave, they should do the same thing: come out with vigorous effort and passion to get out of that location.”

What This Accomplishes:

  1. Identifies churches as Babylon – The “her” in Revelation 18:4 is churches
  2. Makes leaving a divine command – “Come out of her, my people” is God commanding you to leave your church
  3. Creates urgency and panic – “Claw your way out with vigorous effort and passion”
  4. Frames staying as disobedience – If God commands “come out” and you stay, you’re disobeying
  5. Threatens judgment – “So that you will not share in her sins…receive her plagues”

The Biblical Reality:

What Is Babylon in Revelation?

Revelation 17:5 – “The name written on her forehead was a mystery: BABYLON THE GREAT, THE MOTHER OF PROSTITUTES AND OF THE ABOMINATIONS OF THE EARTH.”

Revelation 17:9, 18 – “The seven heads are seven hills on which the woman sits… The woman you saw is the great city that rules over the kings of the earth.”

In the first-century context, Babylon represents:

  • Rome – The city on seven hills that ruled the world
  • The Roman Empire – The political and economic system persecuting Christians
  • The world system – Human civilization organized in opposition to God

Revelation 18:3 – “For all the nations have drunk the maddening wine of her adulteries. The kings of the earth committed adultery with her, and the merchants of the earth grew rich from her excessive luxuries.”

Babylon is characterized by:

  • Political power (“kings of the earth”)
  • Economic exploitation (“merchants grew rich”)
  • Idolatry and immorality (“wine of her adulteries”)

What Does “Come Out” Mean?

2 Corinthians 6:14-17 – “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? Or what does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living God. As God has said: ‘I will live with them and walk among them, and I will be their God, and they will be my people.’ Therefore, ‘Come out from them and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive you.'”

“Come out” means:

  • Spiritual separation from worldliness – Not participating in idolatry and immorality
  • Refusing to compromise with evil – Not being “yoked together with unbelievers” in ungodly practices
  • Maintaining holiness – “Touch no unclean thing”

It does NOT mean:

  • Leaving Christian churches
  • Abandoning Christian fellowship
  • Joining a different organization

The Church Is Not Babylon:

Revelation 2-3 addresses seven churches with various problems:

  • Ephesus lost its first love
  • Pergamum tolerated false teaching
  • Thyatira tolerated Jezebel
  • Sardis had a reputation of being alive but was dead
  • Laodicea was lukewarm

But notice:

  • Jesus addresses each church directly with correction and encouragement
  • He never calls any of them “Babylon”
  • He never tells believers to leave and join a different organization
  • He calls them to repent and return to faithfulness
  • Even the “dead” church (Sardis) has faithful believers (Revelation 3:4)

If churches were Babylon, Jesus would have said, “Come out of these churches.” Instead, He says, “Repent and return to your first love” (Ephesians), “Hold on to what you have” (Thyatira), “Wake up and strengthen what remains” (Sardis).

The Contrast:

Revelation 18:4 – “Come out of her, my people” (referring to Rome/the world system)

Hebrews 10:25 – “Not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”

Scripture commands us to come out of the world system (Babylon) but NOT to give up meeting together with believers (the church). These are opposite commands for different entities.

Chapter 8 of “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” warns: “When a group uses Revelation 18:4 to tell you to leave your church, they’re misapplying Scripture. Babylon in Revelation is the world system opposed to God, not the church Christ died for. The command to ‘come out’ is about spiritual separation from worldliness, not about abandoning Christian fellowship. Any teaching that uses this verse to justify leaving churches contradicts the clear biblical command not to forsake assembling together with believers.”

Lens 6: The Galatians 3:28 Distortion (Chapter 14)

While “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” may not have a chapter specifically addressing Galatians 3:28, the principles about how cults misuse Scripture to blur important distinctions apply here.

How Lesson 54 Uses Galatians 3:28:

The instructor quotes Galatians 3:26-29 to set up the lesson:

“So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.”

The Instructor’s Interpretation:

“Paul states that you are all sons of God through your faith in Jesus. Physically, what does a man possess that a woman does not have? What distinguishes a man from a woman physically? What is the most crucial aspect? While there are many details, the most important thing a physical man has that a physical woman does not is seed…

When Paul says you are all sons of God through Christ, he implies that you all have the seed. And what is the seed, everyone? Can we all hold up the seed? Does everyone have their seed with them? You all have the seed, which makes you sons.

So this is the reason why there is no male and no female physically. Remember, God does not look at physical appearance when seeking someone to work through. He looks at their heart, as stated in 1 Samuel 16:7…

But we have to think spiritually. If we think physically, we will become confused. So the spiritual aspect is what matters.”

What This Accomplishes:

  1. Blurs the unique Christ-church relationship – If “male and female” distinctions don’t matter spiritually, then Christ as Groom and church as bride can be generalized
  2. Justifies calling pastors “grooms” – If anyone with the “seed” (word) can be a “son,” then anyone with the word can be a “groom”
  3. Prepares for role confusion – Students are primed to accept that pastors are “grooms,” congregations are “brides,” and Chairman Lee is the “true groom”
  4. Dismisses objections – Anyone who objects can be told they’re “thinking physically” rather than “spiritually”

The Biblical Reality:

What Does Galatians 3:28 Actually Mean?

The Context (Galatians 3:23-29):

Paul is addressing the question of who inherits God’s promises to Abraham. The answer: all who have faith in Christ, regardless of ethnic background (Jew/Gentile), social status (slave/free), or gender (male/female).

Galatians 3:26-29 – “So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.”

What Paul Is Teaching:

  1. Spiritual equality – All believers have equal standing before God through faith in Christ
  2. Equal inheritance – All believers are heirs of God’s promises, regardless of ethnicity, social status, or gender
  3. Unity in Christ – All believers are one in Christ, breaking down barriers that divided humanity

What Paul Is NOT Teaching:

  1. That distinctions don’t exist – Jews and Gentiles still exist; slaves and free still exist; males and females still exist
  2. That roles are erased – Paul elsewhere addresses different roles in marriage (Ephesians 5), church leadership (1 Timothy 2-3), and society
  3. That metaphors are meaningless – The Christ-church relationship as Groom-bride remains meaningful and specific

The Specific Christ-Church Metaphor:

Ephesians 5:31-32 – “‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.”

Paul explicitly says the marriage metaphor is about Christ and the church specifically. It’s not a general pattern where any spirit (groom) can marry any flesh (bride).

The Point:

Galatians 3:28 teaches spiritual equality—that all believers have equal standing before God regardless of ethnicity, social status, or gender. It does NOT teach that:

  • The Christ-church relationship can be generalized
  • Pastors can be “grooms” to their congregations
  • The unique Groom-bride metaphor is just a flexible pattern
  • Anyone with the word can take Christ’s role as Groom

SCJ uses this passage to blur crucial distinctions and justify their teaching that pastors are “grooms” who can become “widows,” preparing students to view Chairman Lee as the “true groom” at the second coming.


Part 5: The Psychological Manipulation—How Lesson 54 Works on the Mind

Beyond theological distortions, Lesson 54 employs sophisticated psychological techniques to deepen students’ commitment and prepare them for church abandonment.

Creating Identity Crisis: “You’re an Orphan”

The Technique:

The lesson teaches that church members whose pastors have “betrayed” are “orphans”—spiritual children abandoned by their spiritual parents.

The Instructor’s Statement:

“An orphan would be a believer belonging to the pastor who has betrayed, meaning that pastor’s congregation.”

What This Does:

  1. Creates identity crisis – Students who thought they were beloved children of God are told they’re orphans
  2. Generates feelings of abandonment – “Your pastor has betrayed you and left you spiritually orphaned”
  3. Produces vulnerability – Orphans need rescue, protection, and a new family
  4. Justifies leaving – Orphans should leave their abandoning parents and find a true family
  5. Creates gratitude toward SCJ – SCJ becomes the rescuer who takes in orphans

The Emotional Impact:

Being told you’re an “orphan” triggers deep emotional responses:

Abandonment anxiety:

  • “My pastor abandoned me?”
  • “I’ve been spiritually orphaned this whole time?”
  • “I thought I was cared for, but I was actually abandoned?”

Identity confusion:

  • “I thought I was a child of God, but I’m actually an orphan?”
  • “What does it mean to be an orphan?”
  • “How do I stop being an orphan?”

Rescue fantasy:

  • “I need to find a true spiritual parent”
  • “I need to be adopted into the right family”
  • “SCJ can rescue me from being an orphan”

Anger toward pastors:

  • “My pastor betrayed me”
  • “He became a widow and abandoned us”
  • “He left me as an orphan”

The Biblical Reality:

Believers Are Not Orphans:

John 14:18 – Jesus said, “I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.”

Jesus explicitly promises He will NOT leave His disciples as orphans. He comes to them through the Holy Spirit.

Romans 8:15-17 – “The Spirit you received does not make you slaves, so that you live in fear again; rather, the Spirit you received brought about your adoption to sonship. And by him we cry, ‘Abba, Father.’ The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God’s children. Now if we are children, then we are heirs—heirs of God and co-heirs with Christ.”

Believers are:

  • Adopted as sons – Not orphans, but children with full inheritance rights
  • Given the Spirit – Who testifies that we are God’s children
  • Heirs of God – Co-heirs with Christ

Galatians 4:4-7 – “But when the set time had fully come, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born under the law, to redeem those under the law, that we might receive adoption to sonship. Because you are his sons, God sent the Spirit of his Son into our hearts, the Spirit who calls out, ‘Abba, Father.’ So you are no longer a slave, but God’s child; and since you are a child, God has made you also an heir.”

Believers are:

  • Redeemed – Bought back from slavery
  • Adopted as sons – Given full family status
  • Given the Spirit – Who enables us to call God “Father”
  • Heirs – With full inheritance rights

1 John 3:1 – “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!”

We ARE children of God—not orphans, not abandoned, not waiting to be adopted by SCJ.

The Danger:

By calling students “orphans,” SCJ:

  1. Undermines their identity in Christ – Makes them question their status as God’s children
  2. Creates emotional vulnerability – Orphans feel abandoned and need rescue
  3. Justifies leaving churches – Orphans should leave their abandoning parents
  4. Positions SCJ as rescuer – SCJ becomes the family that adopts orphans
  5. Generates false gratitude – Students feel grateful to SCJ for “rescuing” them from being orphans

This is emotional manipulation using biblical terminology to accomplish unbiblical goals.

Demonizing Pastors: “Your Pastor Is a Widow”

The Technique:

The lesson teaches that pastors who have “betrayed” God are “widows”—people who once had the Holy Spirit but lost it through betrayal.

The Instructor’s Statement:

“The widow represents a pastor who has betrayed and is without the Holy Spirit…

A pastor is supposed to be able to receive the seed from above, the word from above, and give that word or seed that he has received to his congregation. That’s how things are supposed to work.

However, if a pastor becomes a widow, it means they are no longer receiving the word from above but receiving it from a different source, or not receiving it at all.”

What This Accomplishes:

  1. Accuses pastors of betrayal – Your pastor has betrayed God
  2. Claims pastors lost the Holy Spirit – They’re “widows” without the Spirit
  3. Undermines pastoral authority – Why listen to a betrayer without the Spirit?
  4. Creates suspicion – Is my pastor a widow? How can I tell?
  5. Justifies leaving – You should leave a widow pastor who has betrayed

The Progression:

Students are led through a progression of thoughts:

Stage 1: Pastors are supposed to be grooms

  • “A pastor receives the word from above and gives it to his congregation”
  • “That’s how things are supposed to work”
  • This sounds reasonable and biblical

Stage 2: Most pastors have betrayed

  • “However, if a pastor becomes a widow…”
  • The “if” implies this has happened to many pastors
  • Students begin to suspect their pastors

Stage 3: Your pastor is probably a widow

  • “They are no longer receiving the word from above”
  • “Or receiving it from a different source”
  • Students apply this to their own pastors

Stage 4: You must leave your widow pastor

  • “Come out of her, my people”
  • “Come out with vigorous effort and passion”
  • Leaving becomes necessary for spiritual survival

The Emotional Impact:

Being told your pastor is a “widow” triggers:

Betrayal feelings:

  • “My pastor betrayed God?”
  • “He’s been lying to us?”
  • “Everything he taught was false?”

Loss of trust:

  • “Can I trust anything he said?”
  • “How do I know what’s true?”
  • “Who can I trust now?”

Anger:

  • “He abandoned us”
  • “He became a widow and left us as orphans”
  • “He’s leading people astray”

Fear:

  • “If I stay, I’ll share in his judgment”
  • “I need to get out before it’s too late”
  • “I’m in danger by staying”

The Biblical Reality:

Pastors Don’t Lose the Holy Spirit Through “Betrayal”:

Romans 8:9 – “You, however, are not in the realm of the flesh but are in the realm of the Spirit, if indeed the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of Christ, they do not belong to Christ.”

If someone belongs to Christ, they have the Spirit. The Spirit doesn’t leave believers when they sin or make mistakes.

John 10:28-29 – Jesus said, “I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand.”

Believers are secure in Christ’s hand. Even if a pastor sins, the Holy Spirit doesn’t abandon him, making him a “widow.”

Ephesians 1:13-14 – “And you also were included in Christ when you heard the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation. When you believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession—to the praise of his glory.”

The Holy Spirit is a seal and deposit, guaranteeing our inheritance. He doesn’t leave believers, turning them into “widows.”

Can Pastors Sin and Need Correction?

Yes, absolutely. Scripture addresses this:

1 Timothy 5:19-20 – “Do not entertain an accusation against an elder unless it is brought by two or three witnesses. But those elders who are sinning you are to reprove before everyone, so that the others may take warning.”

When pastors sin, there’s a biblical process:

  • Accusations require witnesses
  • Sinning elders are reproved publicly
  • This serves as a warning to others

But this is different from claiming pastors have become “widows” without the Holy Spirit who must be abandoned.

Galatians 6:1 – “Brothers and sisters, if someone is caught in a sin, you who live by the Spirit should restore that person gently. But watch yourselves, or you also may be tempted.”

When believers (including pastors) sin, the response is gentle restoration, not abandonment and accusation of being “widows.”

The Point:

While pastors can sin and need correction (like all believers), SCJ’s teaching that pastors are “widows” who have lost the Holy Spirit and must be abandoned:

  1. Contradicts the security of believers – The Spirit doesn’t leave believers who sin
  2. Misuses biblical terminology – “Widow” doesn’t mean a pastor who betrayed
  3. Undermines legitimate pastoral ministry – Makes all pastors suspect
  4. Violates biblical processes – Scripture calls for restoration, not abandonment
  5. Serves SCJ’s agenda – Makes students willing to leave their pastors and churches

The “Vigorous Effort and Passion” Urgency

The Technique:

The lesson uses vivid, emotional imagery to create urgency about leaving churches:

The Instructor’s Statement:

“When a person is resurrected and realizes they are in a grave, they do not stay there and accept the situation. Instead, they claw their way out with vigorous effort and passion, exclaiming, ‘Get me out of here. I want life!’

So, when one realizes they are in a spiritual grave, they should do the same thing: come out with vigorous effort and passion to get out of that location.”

What This Does:

  1. Creates panic – The imagery of being buried alive and clawing your way out is terrifying
  2. Demands immediate action – “Vigorous effort and passion” means act now, don’t wait
  3. Frames staying as death – If you stay in the grave, you’ll remain dead
  4. Justifies extreme measures – When you’re buried alive, any action to escape is justified
  5. Prevents careful consideration – Panic short-circuits rational thinking

The Emotional Manipulation:

The imagery is deliberately chosen to trigger:

Claustrophobia:

  • Being trapped in a grave
  • Unable to breathe
  • Buried alive
  • Desperate to escape

Survival instinct:

  • “Get me out of here!”
  • “I want life!”
  • Fight or flight response
  • Do whatever it takes to survive

Urgency:

  • “Vigorous effort”
  • “Passion”
  • Don’t think, just act
  • Every moment counts

The Biblical Reality:

God Calls for Careful Consideration, Not Panic:

Proverbs 19:2 – “Desire without knowledge is not good—how much more will hasty feet miss the way!”

Hasty decisions without knowledge lead to error. God values careful consideration.

Proverbs 14:15 – “The simple believe anything, but the prudent give thought to their steps.”

Wisdom means carefully evaluating decisions, not acting in panic.

Acts 17:11 – “Now the Berean Jews were of more noble character than those in Thessalonica, for they received the message with great eagerness and examined the Scriptures every day to see if what Paul said was true.”

The Bereans were commended for taking time to examine teaching carefully, not for acting with “vigorous effort and passion” based on emotion.

1 Thessalonians 5:21 – “Test everything; hold fast what is good.”

Testing takes time and careful thought. It’s the opposite of panicked action.

The Danger:

By creating panic and urgency, SCJ:

  1. Prevents careful evaluation – Students don’t take time to test the teaching
  2. Exploits emotional vulnerability – Panic overrides rational thinking
  3. Facilitates rash decisions – Students leave churches without proper consideration
  4. Creates regret – Hasty decisions often lead to regret, but by then students are isolated
  5. Serves the organization – Quick action prevents students from discovering the truth about SCJ

The “Qualification” Framework

The Technique:

The lesson frames entering the wedding banquet as requiring “qualification”—meeting specific criteria.

The Stated Hope:

“To be qualified to enter the wedding banquet at the Second Coming!”

The Instructor’s Statement:

“Our hope for today is to be qualified to enter the wedding banquet at the second coming.

What does it mean to be qualified? Qualification means that you meet specific criteria for something.

God doesn’t allow just anyone to stay at the wedding banquet. One must meet specific qualifications, and we’ll understand what those qualifications are today.”

What This Does:

  1. Makes salvation performance-based – You must meet criteria, not just believe
  2. Creates anxiety – “Am I qualified? Do I meet the criteria?”
  3. Shifts focus from Christ to self – From what Christ did to what I must do
  4. Justifies requirements – Understanding the opened word, leaving churches, joining SCJ become “qualifications”
  5. Produces works-righteousness – Salvation depends on meeting SCJ’s criteria

The Progression:

Students are led through a progression:

Stage 1: Salvation requires qualification

  • “God doesn’t allow just anyone”
  • “One must meet specific qualifications”
  • This creates anxiety and focus on performance

Stage 2: The qualifications are specific

  • “We’ll understand what those qualifications are today”
  • Students eagerly await learning what they must do

Stage 3: The qualifications include SCJ’s requirements

  • Understanding the opened word
  • Leaving your church (coming out of Babylon)
  • Abandoning your widow pastor
  • Finding the true groom (Chairman Lee)
  • Joining SCJ (becoming part of the bride)

Stage 4: Students must meet the qualifications

  • “To be qualified to enter the wedding banquet”
  • Students work to meet the requirements
  • Salvation becomes dependent on performance

The Biblical Reality:

Salvation Is by Grace Through Faith, Not by Meeting Qualifications:

Ephesians 2:8-9 – “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”

Salvation is:

  • By grace – God’s unmerited favor
  • Through faith – Trusting in Christ
  • Not from yourselves – Not by meeting qualifications
  • The gift of God – Free, not earned
  • Not by works – Not by performance

Romans 3:23-24 – “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus.”

We’re justified (declared righteous):

  • Freely – Without cost or qualification
  • By his grace – God’s unmerited favor
  • Through the redemption in Christ – Based on what Christ did, not what we do

Titus 3:5-7 – “He saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life.”

Salvation is:

  • Not because of righteous things we had done – Not by meeting qualifications
  • Because of his mercy – God’s compassion, not our performance
  • Through the washing of rebirth – The Holy Spirit’s work, not our work
  • Justified by his grace – Declared righteous by grace, not by meeting criteria

The Only “Qualification” Is Faith in Christ:

John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

The “qualification” is believing in Christ—not understanding the opened word, not leaving churches, not joining SCJ.

Acts 16:30-31 – “He then brought them out and asked, ‘Sirs, what must I do to be saved?’ They replied, ‘Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved—you and your household.'”

When the Philippian jailer asked what he must do to be saved, Paul didn’t give him a list of qualifications. He said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus.”

The Danger:

By framing salvation as requiring “qualification,” SCJ:

  1. Undermines the gospel of grace – Makes salvation dependent on performance
  2. Creates perpetual anxiety – “Have I met all the qualifications?”
  3. Shifts focus from Christ to self – From trusting Christ to evaluating your performance
  4. Enables control – The organization determines who is “qualified”
  5. Produces bondage – Students live under the burden of meeting requirements

This is the opposite of the gospel, which offers free salvation by grace through faith in Christ.


Part 6: Where This Leads—The Coming Devastation

Students at Lesson 54 are being directly prepared for the explicit instruction to leave their churches. Let’s examine what’s coming and how this lesson sets the stage.

The Explicit Instruction to Leave

What’s Coming:

In the remaining Intermediate Level lessons and the Advanced Level (Revelation), students will be explicitly told:

  1. Your pastor is a widow – He has betrayed God and lost the Holy Spirit
  2. You are an orphan – Abandoned by your widow pastor
  3. Your church is Babylon – It’s the spiritual grave/Babylon that must be left
  4. You must leave immediately – “Come out of her, my people” with vigorous effort and passion
  5. Chairman Lee is the true groom – The one who has the Holy Spirit at the second coming
  6. SCJ is the bride – The only group qualified to enter the wedding banquet
  7. Leaving is obedience – Staying means sharing in Babylon’s sins and plagues

How Lesson 54 Prepares:

By teaching that:

  • Pastors are supposed to be “grooms” but most have become “widows”
  • Church members are “orphans” abandoned by their widow pastors
  • Churches are Babylon/spiritual graves that must be left
  • Students must “come out with vigorous effort and passion”
  • Only those who are “qualified” will enter the wedding banquet

The lesson creates the framework where leaving churches seems like the logical, biblical, urgent response.

The Devastation:

When students leave their churches, they lose:

Spiritual Support:

  • Pastoral guidance and accountability
  • Biblical teaching from trained pastors
  • Connection to historic Christian faith
  • Spiritual roots and heritage
  • Weekly worship and communion
  • Prayer support from the body

Community:

  • Long-term friendships built over years
  • Support networks in times of need
  • Mentors and role models
  • Sense of belonging to a family
  • Shared experiences and memories
  • Community service opportunities

Family Relationships:

  • Shared faith with family members
  • Family church traditions and history
  • Spiritual connection with loved ones
  • Family trust and harmony
  • Attendance at family church events
  • Spiritual discussions with family

Discernment and Protection:

  • Outside perspectives on SCJ’s teaching
  • Warning voices about cultic involvement
  • Access to orthodox Christian resources
  • Accountability to mature believers
  • Protection from deception
  • Balanced spiritual input

The Emotional Toll:

Leaving one’s church causes:

Grief:

  • Loss of community and relationships
  • Loss of spiritual home
  • Loss of familiar worship and traditions
  • Loss of identity as a member

Guilt:

  • “Am I doing the right thing?”
  • “Am I betraying people who love me?”
  • “What will my family think?”
  • “Am I being ungrateful?”

Confusion:

  • “Why does this feel so wrong if it’s right?”
  • “Why am I losing so much if I’m gaining truth?”
  • “Why does everyone think I’m being deceived?”
  • “Why am I so isolated now?”

Anxiety:

  • “What if I made a mistake?”
  • “What if SCJ is wrong?”
  • “How do I go back if I need to?”
  • “What have I done?”

The Biblical Response:

Hebrews 10:24-25 – “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”

We’re commanded not to give up meeting together with believers. While we can change churches if necessary for legitimate reasons, we shouldn’t abandon Christian fellowship.

1 Corinthians 12:12-27 – The entire passage describes the church as one body with many members. We need each other. Verse 21 says, “The eye cannot say to the hand, ‘I don’t need you!’ And the head cannot say to the feet, ‘I don’t need you!'”

Leaving the body of Christ to join an exclusive organization violates this biblical principle of interdependence.

Acts 2:42-47 – The early church “devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer… All the believers were together and had everything in common… Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.”

This is the biblical picture of church—not a graveyard to escape, but a community to belong to.

Chairman Lee as the “True Groom”

What’s Coming:

In the Advanced Level, students will learn:

  1. Chairman Lee Man-hee is the promised pastor – The one who overcomes in Revelation 2-3
  2. He witnessed Revelation’s fulfillment – He personally saw the prophecies fulfilled in the 1980s
  3. He has the Holy Spirit – Unlike the “widow” pastors who lost it
  4. He is the “true groom” at the second coming – Parallel to Jesus at the first coming
  5. He gives the word of life – The “seed” that makes people spiritually alive
  6. Following him is following God – Accepting his teaching is accepting God’s word

How Lesson 54 Prepares:

By teaching that:

  • “Groom” represents any spirit (not Christ specifically)
  • Pastors with the Holy Spirit are “grooms”
  • Most pastors have become “widows” (lost the Spirit)
  • Students must find the “true groom” who has the Spirit at the second coming
  • The true groom gives the word of life (seed) to the bride (flesh)

The lesson prepares students to view Chairman Lee not as a human leader but as the “true groom”—the one with the Holy Spirit who gives the word of life at the second coming.

The Biblical Reality:

There Is One Groom—Christ:

John 3:29 – John the Baptist said, “The bride belongs to the bridegroom.”

There is one bridegroom—Christ. Not Jesus at the first coming and Chairman Lee at the second coming, but Christ alone.

2 Corinthians 11:2 – “I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.”

The church is promised to one husband—Christ. Not to different “grooms” at different times.

Revelation 19:7 – “For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready.”

The wedding is of the Lamb (Christ) and His bride. Not of Chairman Lee and SCJ.

There Is One Mediator—Christ:

1 Timothy 2:5 – “For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus.”

There is one mediator—Christ. Not Chairman Lee, not any human leader.

Acts 4:12 – “Salvation is found in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved.”

Salvation is in Christ’s name alone. Not in understanding Chairman Lee’s testimony or joining his organization.

The Danger:

By preparing students to view Chairman Lee as the “true groom,” SCJ:

  1. Usurps Christ’s unique role – Takes what belongs to Christ and gives it to a human leader
  2. Creates leader worship – Chairman Lee becomes the object of devotion
  3. Makes salvation dependent on a human – Following Chairman Lee becomes necessary for salvation
  4. Violates the first commandment – “You shall have no other gods before me” (Exodus 20:3)
  5. Fulfills the definition of a cult – Elevating a human leader to divine or semi-divine status

This is not biblical Christianity—it’s idolatry dressed in biblical language.

The 144,000 and Limited Salvation

What’s Coming:

In the Advanced Level, students will learn:

  1. The 144,000 is literal – It’s not symbolic but an exact number
  2. Only 144,000 will be saved – These are the only people who will reign with Christ
  3. The 144,000 are SCJ members – Specifically, those who complete the program and are “sealed”
  4. The great multitude are second-class – They’re saved but don’t reign; they serve the 144,000
  5. Salvation is limited – There’s urgency because spots are filling up
  6. Only those “qualified” enter the banquet – The 144,000 who met SCJ’s requirements

How Lesson 54 Prepares:

By teaching that:

  • Only those who are “qualified” enter the wedding banquet
  • God doesn’t allow “just anyone” to stay at the banquet
  • Students must meet “specific criteria”
  • Only those who leave Babylon (churches) will be saved
  • Only those who find the true groom (Chairman Lee) will enter

The lesson creates a framework of limited, exclusive salvation that will later be applied to the 144,000 doctrine.

The Biblical Reality:

The Great Multitude Is Innumerable:

Revelation 7:9 – “After this I looked, and there before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the throne and before the Lamb.”

The redeemed are:

  • A great multitude – Not limited to 144,000
  • That no one could count – Innumerable, not a fixed number
  • From every nation, tribe, people and language – Universal, not one organization

Revelation 7:13-14 – “Then one of the elders asked me, ‘These in white robes—who are they, and where did they come from?’ I answered, ‘Sir, you know.’ And he said, ‘These are they who have come out of the great tribulation; they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb.'”

The great multitude:

  • Washed their robes in the blood of the Lamb – Saved by Christ’s sacrifice
  • Made them white – Purified by Christ’s blood
  • Standing before the throne – In God’s presence, clearly saved

There’s no indication they’re second-class citizens or servants of the 144,000.

Salvation Is for “Whoever Believes”:

John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

“Whoever believes”—not “the first 144,000 who join the right organization.”

Romans 10:13 – “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.”

“Everyone”—not a limited number, not an exclusive group.

Revelation 22:17 – “The Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’ And let the one who hears say, ‘Come!’ Let the one who is thirsty come; and let the one who wishes take the free gift of the water of life.”

The invitation is open:

  • “Let the one who is thirsty come” – Anyone who recognizes their need
  • “The one who wishes” – Anyone who desires
  • “Take the free gift” – It’s free, not limited to 144,000

The Point:

Scripture teaches that salvation is available to all who believe in Christ, not limited to 144,000 members of one organization. The great multitude is innumerable, standing before God’s throne, saved by the blood of the Lamb.

SCJ’s teaching that only 144,000 will be saved contradicts Scripture’s clear teaching about the breadth of God’s salvation.


Part 7: For Students Currently Taking This Lesson

If you’re currently taking Lesson 54 or have recently completed it, here’s what you need to know and consider.

Where You Are in the Journey

By Lesson 54, you’ve invested significantly:

Time Investment:

  • 8 months of study
  • 216+ hours in classes, homework, and review
  • Test preparation and completion
  • Social activities with the group

Emotional Investment:

  • Deep relationships with instructors and fellow students over 8 months
  • Identity as someone learning special truth
  • Satisfaction of understanding “secrets of heaven”
  • Sense of being specially chosen “out of many people”

Intellectual Investment:

  • Accepted that churches are spiritual graveyards (Babylon)
  • Believe that most pastors are “widows” (betrayers without the Holy Spirit)
  • Trust that you’re an “orphan” who needs to be rescued
  • Internalized the groom/bride framework

Spiritual Investment:

  • Believe you’re learning truth others miss
  • Feel you must “come out” of your church with “vigorous effort and passion”
  • Trust you need to be “qualified” to enter the wedding banquet
  • Hope you’re finding the “true groom” at the second coming

The Critical Moment:

You’re at a critical decision point. The next lessons will explicitly instruct you to leave your church. Once you do, recovery becomes much more difficult because you’ll lose:

  • Your Christian community and support system
  • Your pastor’s guidance and accountability
  • Outside perspectives that could help you see the deception
  • The relationships that could help you exit SCJ

Before you take that devastating step, please consider the following.

Critical Questions to Ask Yourself

About the Teaching:

  1. Does the Bible teach that pastors are “grooms” who can become “widows,” or does it teach that Christ alone is the Groom and pastors are shepherds?

Look up: John 3:28-30 (John the Baptist says he’s not the groom), Ephesians 5:25-32 (Christ is the groom, the church is the bride), 1 Peter 5:1-4 (pastors are shepherds, not grooms)

  1. Does the Bible call believers “orphans,” or does it say believers are adopted as God’s children?

Look up: John 14:18 (Jesus won’t leave us as orphans), Romans 8:15-17 (we’re adopted as sons), 1 John 3:1 (we ARE children of God)

  1. Does Revelation 18:4 (“Come out of her”) refer to leaving churches, or to separating from the world system?

Read Revelation 17-18 in context. Notice that Babylon is described as a city ruling over kings, involved in commerce and idolatry—characteristics of Rome, not the church.

  1. Does the Bible teach that salvation requires meeting “qualifications,” or that it’s by grace through faith in Christ?

Look up: Ephesians 2:8-9, Romans 3:23-24, Titus 3:5-7, John 3:16

  1. Does Galatians 3:28 (“no male and female”) mean that Christ’s unique role as Groom can be generalized to any pastor, or does it mean spiritual equality among believers?

Read Galatians 3 in context and compare with Ephesians 5:31-32 where Paul explicitly says the marriage metaphor is about Christ and the church.

About the Methods:

  1. Why does the teaching use panic-inducing imagery (“claw your way out with vigorous effort and passion”) rather than encouraging careful evaluation?
  2. Why are you being told your pastor is a “widow” (betrayer) and you’re an “orphan” (abandoned)? What purpose does this emotional manipulation serve?
  3. Why is the organization still hiding its identity if this is truth? Why haven’t you been told you’re studying Shincheonji?
  4. Why are you discouraged from discussing this with your pastor? If the teaching is true, wouldn’t it stand up to scrutiny?
  5. Why does the teaching create urgency (“come out NOW”) rather than allowing time for prayer and consideration?

About the Effects:

  1. Has this teaching made you feel closer to Jesus or more dependent on the organization’s teaching?
  2. Are you becoming more loving toward your pastor and church or more suspicious and judgmental?
  3. Do you feel more confident in God’s grace or more anxious about meeting “qualifications”?
  4. Is this teaching producing peace and joy or anxiety and urgency?
  5. How would you feel if you were told to leave your church? Does that seem biblical and right?

What You Need to Know About What’s Coming

If you continue, you will be told to:

  1. Leave your church immediately – It’s Babylon, a spiritual grave you must escape
  2. Abandon your pastor – He’s a widow (betrayer) who has lost the Holy Spirit
  3. Join SCJ – It’s the only bride qualified to enter the wedding banquet
  4. Accept Chairman Lee as the promised pastor – He’s the “true groom” at the second coming
  5. Believe only 144,000 will be saved – All SCJ members who complete the program
  6. Recruit others using deceptive methods – Hide SCJ’s identity and present it as Bible study
  7. Make salvation dependent on organizational membership – Understanding SCJ’s teaching is necessary for eternal life

Is this what you signed up for?

When you started, you probably thought you were:

  • Learning to understand the Bible better
  • Growing spiritually
  • Discovering truth

You probably didn’t expect you’d be asked to:

  • View your pastor as a betrayer without the Holy Spirit
  • See yourself as an abandoned orphan
  • Leave your church and Christian community
  • Accept a Korean man as the “true groom” at the second coming
  • Believe salvation requires organizational membership

Now that you know where this leads, do you want to continue?

What to Do If You Have Doubts

1. Don’t Suppress Your Doubts

Your discomfort with calling your pastor a “widow” and yourself an “orphan” isn’t spiritual immaturity—it’s your conscience alerting you that something is wrong.

1 Thessalonians 5:21 – “Test everything; hold fast what is good.”

2. Research Independently

Despite being discouraged, you need to know what you’re involved in:

3. Talk to Your Pastor

Schedule a meeting with your pastor:

  • Show them the materials you’ve been studying
  • Tell them you’re being taught he’s a “widow” (betrayer) and you’re an “orphan”
  • Ask them to evaluate the teaching biblically
  • Listen to their concerns with an open mind
  • Don’t assume they “just don’t understand”

4. Pray for Discernment

James 1:5 – “If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.”

Ask God to show you if this teaching is true or false. Pray that if it’s deception, He would open your eyes.

5. Take a Break

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, take a break from the study. Tell your instructor you need time to process and pray.

A legitimate Christian ministry will respect your need for space. If there’s pressure to continue without thinking, that’s a red flag.

6. Reach Out for Help

Contact:

  • Former member support groups
  • Cult awareness organizations
  • Churches with experience helping people leave SCJ
  • Family members or friends who have expressed concerns

The Choice Before You

Option 1: Continue the Study

  • Complete the remaining 54 lessons (another year+)
  • Accept increasingly extreme teachings
  • Leave your church and abandon your pastor
  • Join SCJ and accept Chairman Lee as the “true groom”
  • Recruit others using deceptive methods
  • Live with anxiety about maintaining “qualification”

Option 2: Leave Now

  • Stop attending classes immediately
  • Research SCJ independently
  • Reconnect with your church and pastor
  • Return to the simple gospel of grace
  • Help others avoid this deception
  • Experience freedom in Christ

The Cost of Each Choice:

Continuing will cost you:

  • Another year+ of time
  • Your church community and pastoral care
  • Relationships with family and friends
  • Your spiritual freedom and assurance
  • Your integrity (when asked to deceive in recruitment)
  • Potentially your salvation (if you replace faith in Christ with organizational membership)

Leaving will cost you:

  • Relationships with instructors and students (though real friends will remain)
  • The sense of having special knowledge
  • The feeling of being specially chosen
  • The time already invested (sunk cost)
  • Admitting you were deceived (which takes humility)

But leaving will gain you:

  • Freedom in Christ
  • Return to biblical truth
  • Restored relationships with church and family
  • Peace and assurance in the gospel
  • Integrity and honesty
  • Opportunity to help others

The Biblical Call:

Galatians 5:1 – “It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery.”

2 Corinthians 11:3 – “But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent’s cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ.”

Don’t let your mind be led astray from sincere and pure devotion to Christ. SCJ’s teaching about grooms, widows, orphans, and qualifications is leading you away from Christ, not toward Him.

Return to Christ—the true and only Groom.


Part 8: For Friends and Family—How to Help

If someone you care about is taking Lesson 54, they’re at a critical and dangerous juncture. They’re being directly told to leave their church. Here’s how you can help.

Understanding the Urgency

By Lesson 54, your friend or family member is:

  • Being told their pastor is a “widow” (betrayer without the Holy Spirit)
  • Learning they’re an “orphan” (abandoned by their pastor)
  • Hearing they must “come out” of their church with “vigorous effort and passion”
  • Feeling urgency to leave immediately to avoid judgment
  • Preparing to abandon their church and Christian community
  • Very close to the Advanced Level where they’ll learn about Chairman Lee and the 144,000

Time is absolutely critical. Once they leave their church, they lose their primary Christian community, pastoral guidance, and outside perspectives. Recovery becomes much more difficult.

What TO DO

1. Express Urgent, Specific Concerns

Share your concerns about the specific teaching:

Use “I” statements:

  • “I’m very concerned that you’re being taught your pastor is a ‘widow’ who betrayed God”
  • “I’m worried that you’re being told you’re an ‘orphan’ who’s been abandoned”
  • “I’m alarmed that you’re being pressured to leave your church immediately”

Ask direct questions:

  • “Does the Bible teach that pastors are ‘grooms’ who can become ‘widows,’ or that Christ alone is the Groom?”
  • “Does Scripture call believers ‘orphans,’ or does it say we’re adopted as God’s children?”
  • “Are you being told to leave your church? How do you feel about that?”
  • “Why the urgency? Why ‘vigorous effort and passion’ instead of careful prayer and consideration?”

2. Provide Biblical Clarity

Share key Scriptures that directly contradict the lesson:

On Christ as the unique Groom:

  • John 3:28-30 – John the Baptist says he’s not the groom; the bride belongs to the bridegroom (Christ)
  • Ephesians 5:25-32 – Christ is the groom, the church is the bride
  • 2 Corinthians 11:2 – The church is promised to one husband—Christ

On believers not being orphans:

  • John 14:18 – Jesus said, “I will not leave you as orphans”
  • Romans 8:15-17 – We’re adopted as sons, not orphans
  • 1 John 3:1 – “We should be called children of God! And that is what we are!”

On pastors as shepherds, not grooms:

  • John 21:15-17 – Jesus tells Peter to feed His sheep
  • 1 Peter 5:1-4 – Pastors are shepherds of God’s flock
  • Acts 20:28 – Pastors shepherd the church of God

On salvation by grace, not qualification:

  • Ephesians 2:8-9 – Saved by grace through faith, not by works
  • John 3:16 – Whoever believes in Him has eternal life
  • Titus 3:5 – Not by righteous things we had done, but by His mercy

3. Warn About What’s Coming

Let them know what they’ll be told in the next lessons:

“I’ve researched where this teaching leads. You’ll be explicitly told to leave your church immediately because it’s ‘Babylon.’ You’ll be taught that Chairman Lee Man-hee is the ‘true groom’ at the second coming. You’ll learn that only 144,000 SCJ members will be saved. You’ll be expected to recruit others while hiding the organization’s identity. Is this what you want?”

4. Involve the Pastor Immediately

If your friend is still attending church, their pastor needs to know urgently:

  • Share that they’re being taught the pastor is a “widow” (betrayer)
  • Explain they’re being told to leave the church immediately
  • Ask the pastor to reach out pastorally and urgently
  • Request that the pastor address relevant topics in sermons
  • See if the pastor can arrange an immediate meeting

5. Provide Resources

Give them specific resources:

  • “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” (especially Chapters 5, 6, 8, 14, 18)
  • Direct them to https://closerlookinitiative.com/shincheonji-examination
  • Former member testimonies about leaving churches and the devastation it caused
  • Articles on SCJ’s teaching about Chairman Lee as the “true groom”
  • Information about the 144,000 doctrine

6. Offer to Attend Church With Them

If they’re wavering about leaving their church:

  • Offer to attend with them this Sunday
  • Remind them of positive experiences they’ve had there
  • Help them reconnect with church friends
  • Encourage them to talk to their pastor before making any decision

7. Pray Intensely and Specifically

This is spiritual warfare. Pray for:

  • Their eyes to be opened before they leave their church
  • The Holy Spirit to convict them that this teaching is false
  • Courage to leave SCJ despite the investment
  • Protection from the manipulation and pressure
  • Their pastor to have wisdom, compassion, and urgency
  • God to intervene dramatically if necessary

What NOT to Do

1. Don’t Wait

If you wait until they’ve left their church, it may be too late. Act now with urgency.

2. Don’t Assume They Know Where This Leads

They likely don’t realize they’re being prepared to view Chairman Lee as the “true groom” or that only 144,000 will be saved. Make it explicit.

3. Don’t Accept the “Spiritual Thinking” Dismissal

If they say you’re “thinking physically” and need to “think spiritually,” respond:

“The Bible is clear that Christ is the unique Groom and the church is His bride. This isn’t ‘physical thinking’—it’s biblical truth. Calling pastors ‘grooms’ who can become ‘widows’ contradicts Scripture’s clear teaching.”

4. Don’t Let Them Leave Their Church

If they announce they’re leaving their church, intervene immediately:

  • Ask them to wait and pray for at least two weeks
  • Arrange a meeting with their pastor
  • Show them resources about SCJ
  • Help them see this is a cult tactic, not biblical obedience

Signs They’re About to Leave Their Church

Watch for these urgent warning signs:

  • ✓ Talking about their pastor as a “widow” or betrayer
  • ✓ Referring to themselves as an “orphan”
  • ✓ Using language about “coming out” or escaping
  • ✓ Expressing urgency about leaving immediately
  • ✓ Talking about needing to be “qualified” for the wedding banquet
  • ✓ Defending the idea that pastors can lose the Holy Spirit
  • ✓ Missing church services or arriving late/leaving early
  • ✓ Withdrawing from church activities and relationships
  • ✓ Asking questions about whether it’s okay to leave a church
  • ✓ Increased time with SCJ and decreased time with church friends

If you notice these signs, intervene immediately. They’re on the verge of leaving.

If They’ve Already Left Their Church

If they’ve already left, it’s not too late, but it’s more difficult:

1. Don’t Give Up

Many people who leave their churches eventually leave SCJ. Continue to:

  • Maintain the relationship
  • Pray consistently
  • Provide information
  • Be ready for when they’re ready to exit

2. Document the Consequences

Help them see what they’ve lost:

  • “You’ve lost your church community and pastoral care”
  • “Your relationship with [pastor/friends] has been damaged”
  • “You’re isolated from other Christians”
  • “You’re dependent on one organization for all spiritual input”
  • “You’re being told you need to be ‘qualified’ rather than resting in Christ’s finished work”

3. Ask About Their Experience

“Are you finding the spiritual life you were promised? Do you feel more like a beloved child of God or more like you’re trying to meet qualifications? Is this what you expected?”

4. Provide an Exit Path

Let them know:

  • Their church would welcome them back
  • Their pastor would be happy to talk
  • You’ll support them if they leave SCJ
  • It’s not too late to return
  • Many others have left SCJ and recovered

5. Connect Them with Former Members

Former SCJ members who left after abandoning their churches can provide powerful testimony about:

  • The regret of leaving their church
  • The difficulty of being isolated from Christian community
  • The manipulation they experienced
  • The relief of returning to biblical faith
  • The process of recovery and restoration

Part 9: The Real Biblical Teaching—Christ, the Church, and the Wedding

Let’s return to what Scripture actually teaches about these crucial concepts, free from SCJ’s distortions.

Christ: The Unique and Only Groom

The Biblical Teaching:

Scripture consistently presents Christ as the unique, exclusive Groom of the church. This isn’t a general category where any spirit-filled person can be a “groom”—it’s a specific, covenant relationship between Christ and His people.

Old Testament Preparation:

Isaiah 54:5 – “For your Maker is your husband—the LORD Almighty is his name—the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth.”

God is Israel’s husband. This is a unique relationship, not a pattern repeated with multiple “grooms.”

Jeremiah 31:31-32 – “The days are coming,” declares the LORD, “when I will make a new covenant with the people of Israel and with the people of Judah. It will not be like the covenant I made with their ancestors when I took them by the hand to lead them out of Egypt, because they broke my covenant, though I was a husband to them,” declares the LORD.”

God was a husband to Israel. He promises a new covenant—not a different husband, but a renewed relationship.

Hosea 2:16, 19-20 – “‘In that day,’ declares the LORD, ‘you will call me “my husband”; you will no longer call me “my master.”‘… I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion. I will betroth you in faithfulness, and you will acknowledge the LORD.”

God promises to betroth Israel to Himself forever. This is restoration and renewal, not replacement with a different bride.

New Testament Fulfillment:

John 3:28-30 – John the Baptist said, “You yourselves can testify that I said, ‘I am not the Messiah but am sent ahead of him.’ The bride belongs to the bridegroom. The friend who attends the bridegroom waits and listens for him, and is full of joy when he hears the bridegroom’s voice. That joy is mine, and it is now complete. He must become greater; I must become less.”

John the Baptist, filled with the Holy Spirit from birth:

  • Explicitly denies being the Messiah/groom
  • Identifies himself as the friend of the groom
  • Points to Christ as the bridegroom
  • Says Christ must become greater

If having the Holy Spirit made someone a “groom,” John would be a groom. But he explicitly denies this and points to Christ alone.

2 Corinthians 11:2 – “I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.”

Paul, an apostle with the Holy Spirit:

  • Doesn’t claim to be the groom
  • Promises the church to one husband—Christ
  • His role is to present the bride to Christ, not to be her husband

Ephesians 5:25-32 – “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless… ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church.”

Paul explicitly states:

  • Christ loved the church (the groom loves the bride)
  • Christ gave himself up for her (the groom died for the bride)
  • Christ will present her to himself (the groom receives the bride)
  • “This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church”

This isn’t a general pattern—it’s specifically about Christ and the church.

Revelation 19:7-9 – “Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear. (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of God’s holy people.) Then the angel said to me, ‘Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!’ And he added, ‘These are the true words of God.'”

The wedding is of the Lamb (Christ) and His bride. This is the culmination of redemptive history—not a repeating pattern with different grooms at different times.

Revelation 21:2, 9 – “I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband… One of the seven angels who had the seven bowls full of the seven last plagues came and said to me, ‘Come, I will show you the bride, the wife of the Lamb.'”

The bride is the wife of the Lamb—Christ’s unique bride, not one of many brides married to different grooms.

The Point:

From Genesis to Revelation, Scripture presents one consistent picture: Christ is the unique Groom, and the church is His unique bride. This isn’t a general category or repeating pattern. It’s the central love story of the Bible.

The Church: Christ’s Beloved Bride

The Biblical Teaching:

The church universal—all true believers throughout history—is Christ’s bride. Individual congregations aren’t separate “brides” married to their pastors. They’re all part of the one bride married to the one Groom.

The Church’s Identity:

Ephesians 1:22-23 – “And God placed all things under his feet and appointed him to be head over everything for the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills everything in every way.”

The church is:

  • Christ’s body
  • The fullness of Him who fills everything

Can Christ’s body be a graveyard? Can His fullness be spiritually dead? Impossible.

Ephesians 5:25-27 – “Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.”

Christ:

  • Loved the church (past tense—He already loved her)
  • Gave himself up for her (past tense—He already died for her)
  • Makes her holy (ongoing—He’s sanctifying her now)
  • Will present her to himself (future—He’ll receive her as His bride)

This is Christ’s work for His church. It cannot fail.

1 Corinthians 3:16-17 – “Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple and that God’s Spirit dwells in your midst? If anyone destroys God’s temple, God will destroy that person; for God’s temple is sacred, and you together are that temple.”

The church is:

  • God’s temple
  • The dwelling place of God’s Spirit
  • Sacred to God

Can God’s temple be Babylon? Can the Spirit’s dwelling place be a graveyard? No.

1 Timothy 3:15 – “If I am delayed, you will know how people ought to conduct themselves in God’s household, which is the church of the living God, the pillar and foundation of the truth.”

The church is:

  • God’s household
  • The pillar and foundation of truth

If all churches are Babylon, there is no pillar of truth. But God has preserved His truth through His church for 2,000 years.

Christ’s Promise:

Matthew 16:18 – Jesus said, “And I tell you that you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not overcome it.”

Jesus promised:

  • “I will build my church” – It’s His church, His work
  • “The gates of Hades will not overcome it” – Death will not defeat it

If all churches have become Babylon and all pastors have become widows, the gates of Hades overcame the church, and Jesus’s promise failed. But Jesus cannot fail.

The Reality:

While individual churches can have problems (Revelation 2-3 addresses seven churches with various issues), the church universal—all true believers—has never been overcome. Christ’s bride is being prepared for the wedding, not abandoned in a graveyard.

Pastors: Shepherds, Not Grooms

The Biblical Teaching:

Scripture consistently presents pastors as shepherds who care for Christ’s flock, not as “grooms” who marry congregations.

Jesus’s Commission:

John 21:15-17 – After breakfast, Jesus said to Simon Peter, “Simon son of John, do you love me more than these?” “Yes, Lord,” he said, “you know that I love you.” Jesus said, “Feed my lambs.” Again Jesus said, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” He answered, “Yes, Lord, you know that I love you.” Jesus said, “Take care of my sheep.” The third time he said to him, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Peter was hurt because Jesus asked him the third time, “Do you love me?” He said, “Lord, you know all things; you know that I love you.” Jesus said, “Feed my sheep.”

Jesus commissions Peter to:

  • Feed my lambs – Care for Christ’s people
  • Take care of my sheep – Shepherd Christ’s flock
  • Feed my sheep – Provide spiritual nourishment

Notice: The sheep belong to Jesus (“my sheep”), not to Peter. Peter’s role is to care for them on Jesus’s behalf, not to be their groom.

Peter’s Instructions to Pastors:

1 Peter 5:1-4 – “To the elders among you, I appeal as a fellow elder and a witness of Christ’s sufferings who also will share in the glory to be revealed: Be shepherds of God’s flock that is under your care, watching over them—not because you must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be; not pursuing dishonest gain, but eager to serve; not lording it over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock. And when the Chief Shepherd appears, you will receive the crown of glory that will never fade away.”

Peter calls pastors to:

  • Be shepherds of God’s flock – They’re shepherds, not grooms
  • God’s flock that is under your care – The flock belongs to God, not to the pastors
  • Not lording it over those entrusted to you – They don’t own the people as a groom owns a bride
  • When the Chief Shepherd appears – Jesus is the Chief Shepherd; pastors are under-shepherds

Paul’s Instructions:

Acts 20:28 – “Keep watch over yourselves and all the flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you over seers. Be shepherds of the church of God, which he bought with his own blood.”

Paul tells the Ephesian elders:

  • “The flock of which the Holy Spirit has made you overseers” – They’re overseers/shepherds
  • “The church of God, which he bought with his own blood” – The church belongs to God/Christ who bought her; pastors don’t own her as grooms

The Pastoral Roles in Scripture:

Scripture describes pastors as:

  • Shepherds – Caring for Christ’s sheep (John 21:15-17, 1 Peter 5:1-4)
  • Overseers/Elders – Watching over the flock (Acts 20:28, 1 Timothy 3:1-7)
  • Servants – Serving the church (2 Corinthians 4:5, Mark 10:43-45)
  • Stewards – Managing God’s household (1 Corinthians 4:1-2, Titus 1:7)
  • Examples – Modeling faithful living (1 Peter 5:3, 1 Timothy 4:12)
  • Teachers – Instructing in sound doctrine (1 Timothy 3:2, 2 Timothy 2:24)

Never as:

  • Grooms – This role belongs to Christ alone
  • Owners – The church belongs to Christ, not pastors
  • Mediators – Christ is the one mediator (1 Timothy 2:5)
  • Husbands to the congregation – The church is Christ’s bride, not pastors’ brides

The Point:

Pastors are under-shepherds who care for Christ’s flock on His behalf. They’re not “grooms” who can become “widows.” This entire framework is a distortion designed to undermine pastoral authority and prepare students to leave their churches.

The Wedding Banquet: Open to All Who Believe

The Biblical Teaching:

The wedding banquet is the celebration of Christ’s union with His bride, the church. It’s open to all who believe in Christ, not limited to 144,000 members of one organization.

The Parable of the Wedding Banquet:

Matthew 22:1-14 – Jesus tells a parable about a king who prepares a wedding banquet for his son. The invited guests refuse to come, so the king sends servants to invite anyone they can find. The hall is filled with guests, both bad and good.

Key points:

  • “Go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find” (v. 9) – The invitation is broad and inclusive
  • “The bad as well as the good” (v. 10) – Both sinners and righteous are invited
  • “The wedding hall was filled with guests” (v. 10) – Many people enter, not just 144,000

The Wedding Garment:

One guest is thrown out for not wearing wedding clothes (Matthew 22:11-14). What does this mean?

Revelation 19:7-8 – “Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear. (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of God’s holy people.)”

The wedding clothes are:

  • Fine linen, bright and clean – Purity and righteousness
  • Given to her to wear – Not earned, but given as a gift
  • The righteous acts of God’s holy people – The result of God’s work in believers

Isaiah 61:10 – “I delight greatly in the LORD; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of his righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels.”

The wedding garment is:

  • Garments of salvation – Salvation itself
  • A robe of his righteousness – God’s righteousness, not our own
  • Given by God – “He has clothed me”

The “Qualification”:

The only “qualification” for the wedding banquet is receiving Christ’s righteousness by faith. It’s not:

  • Understanding complex symbolic interpretations
  • Leaving your church
  • Joining the right organization
  • Meeting performance-based criteria
  • Being one of 144,000 specially chosen people

It’s simply receiving Christ’s righteousness as a gift through faith.

The Invitation:

Revelation 22:17 – “The Spirit and the bride say, ‘Come!’ And let the one who hears say, ‘Come!’ Let the one who is thirsty come; and let the one who wishes take the free gift of the water of life.”

The invitation is to:

  • “The one who is thirsty” – Anyone who recognizes their need
  • “The one who wishes” – Anyone who desires
  • “Take the free gift” – It’s free, not earned by meeting qualifications

John 6:37 – Jesus said, “All those the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away.”

Jesus promises:

  • “Whoever comes to me” – The invitation is open
  • “I will never drive away” – Those who come are secure

The Great Multitude:

Revelation 7:9-10 – “After this I looked, and there before me was a great multitude that no one could count, from every nation, tribe, people and language, standing before the throne and before the Lamb. They were wearing white robes and were holding palm branches in their hands. And they cried out in a loud voice: ‘Salvation belongs to our God, who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb.'”

The redeemed are:

  • A great multitude – Not limited to 144,000
  • That no one could count – Innumerable, not a fixed number
  • From every nation, tribe, people and language – Universal, not one organization
  • Standing before the throne – In God’s presence, clearly saved
  • Wearing white robes – Clothed in righteousness

Revelation 7:13-14 – “Then one of the elders asked me, ‘These in white robes—who are they, and where did they come from?’ I answered, ‘Sir, you know.’ And he said, ‘These are they who have come out of the great tribulation; they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb.'”

The great multitude:

  • Washed their robes in the blood of the Lamb – Saved by Christ’s sacrifice
  • Made them white – Purified by Christ’s blood

There’s no indication they’re second-class citizens or servants of the 144,000. They’re standing before God’s throne, saved by the Lamb’s blood.

The Point:

The wedding banquet is open to all who believe in Christ and receive His righteousness by faith. It’s not exclusive to 144,000 SCJ members who meet organizational requirements. The great multitude is innumerable, from every nation, saved by the blood of the Lamb.


Part 10: The Simple Gospel vs. SCJ’s Complex System

Let’s contrast the simple, beautiful gospel of grace with SCJ’s complex, burdensome system.

The Simple Gospel

The Problem:

Romans 3:23 – “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.”

Romans 6:23 – “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

We’re all sinners deserving death. This is the human condition.

God’s Solution:

Romans 5:8 – “But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”

John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.”

God loved us and sent Jesus to die in our place. This is the gospel.

Our Response:

Ephesians 2:8-9 – “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast.”

Romans 10:9-10 – “If you declare with your mouth, ‘Jesus is Lord,’ and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved.”

We’re saved by grace through faith in Christ. We believe and confess that Jesus is Lord.

The Result:

1 John 5:11-13 – “And this is the testimony: God has given us eternal life, and this life is in his Son. Whoever has the Son has life; whoever does not have the Son of God does not have life. I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God so that you may know that you have eternal life.”

If you have Christ through faith, you have eternal life. You can know this with certainty.

This is the gospel:

  • Simple enough for a child to understand
  • Free—not earned by works or understanding
  • Secure—based on Christ’s finished work, not our performance
  • Certain—we can know we have eternal life
  • Joyful—it produces peace, assurance, and gratitude

SCJ’s Complex System

The Problem (According to SCJ):

  • All churches have become Babylon (spiritual graves)
  • All pastors have become widows (betrayers without the Holy Spirit)
  • All church members are orphans (abandoned by their widow pastors)
  • The Bible was sealed and incomprehensible until Chairman Lee
  • Believers in Christ are spiritually dead without SCJ’s teaching

SCJ’s Solution:

  • God raised up Chairman Lee as the promised pastor at the second coming
  • Chairman Lee witnessed Revelation’s fulfillment in the 1980s
  • He can now reveal the “opened word” (correct interpretation)
  • He is the “true groom” who has the Holy Spirit
  • SCJ is the bride who will enter the wedding banquet

Your Required Response:

  • Study 108 lessons over 1.5-2 years
  • Understand 100% of the symbolic interpretations
  • Leave your church (come out of Babylon)
  • Abandon your pastor (the widow who betrayed)
  • Join SCJ (become part of the bride)
  • Accept Chairman Lee as the promised pastor
  • Recruit others using deceptive methods
  • Maintain correct understanding to stay saved

The Result:

  • Only 144,000 will be saved (all SCJ members)
  • You must be “qualified” by meeting specific criteria
  • Salvation depends on understanding and organizational membership
  • You can never be certain you’re saved (what if you don’t understand 100%?)
  • You live with anxiety about maintaining qualification

This is SCJ’s system:

  • Complex—requires 108 lessons and years of study
  • Expensive—costs time, relationships, and integrity
  • Insecure—based on your understanding and performance
  • Uncertain—you can never be sure you’re qualified
  • Burdensome—produces anxiety, fear, and works-righteousness

The Contrast

The Simple Gospel SCJ’s Complex System
Christ is the Groom Chairman Lee is the “true groom”
The church is Christ’s bride SCJ is the bride; churches are Babylon
Pastors are shepherds Pastors are widows (betrayers)
Believers are God’s children Church members are orphans
Salvation by grace through faith Salvation by understanding and membership
Free gift Earned by meeting qualifications
Simple—believe in Christ Complex—108 lessons, symbolic interpretations
Secure—based on Christ’s work Insecure—based on your understanding
Certain—you can know you’re saved Uncertain—must maintain qualification
Joyful—produces peace and assurance Burdensome—produces anxiety and fear
Open to all who believe Limited to 144,000 SCJ members

The Question:

Which sounds like good news? Which sounds like the gospel Jesus preached?

Luke 4:18-19 – Jesus said, “The Spirit of the Lord is on me, because he has anointed me to proclaim good news to the poor. He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”

Jesus came to proclaim good news and freedom.

SCJ’s system is not good news—it’s burdensome requirements. It’s not freedom—it’s bondage to organizational membership and performance-based salvation.

Galatians 1:6-9 – “I am astonished that you are so quickly deserting the one who called you to live in the grace of Christ and are turning to a different gospel—which is really no gospel at all. Evidently some people are throwing you into confusion and are trying to pervert the gospel of Christ. But even if we or an angel from heaven should preach a gospel other than the one we preached to you, let them be under God’s curse! As we have already said, so now I say again: If anybody is preaching to you a gospel other than what you accepted, let them be under God’s curse!”

Paul warns against “a different gospel—which is really no gospel at all.” SCJ’s system is a different gospel:

  • Different savior (Chairman Lee as the “true groom”)
  • Different basis (understanding and membership, not faith in Christ)
  • Different result (anxiety and performance, not peace and assurance)

Return to the simple gospel of grace.


Conclusion: The True Groom and His Beloved Bride

Lesson 54 on “Secrets of Heaven, the Figurative Groom, Bride, Widow, and Orphan” appears to be a Bible study about biblical metaphors. The instructor uses Scripture, discusses the wedding banquet, and explains spiritual symbolism.

But beneath the surface, the lesson is accomplishing something devastating:

It’s redefining biblical metaphors to:

  • Strip Christ of His unique role as the Groom
  • Make pastors “grooms” who can become “widows”
  • Accuse most pastors of betrayal
  • Make church members feel like “orphans”
  • Prepare students to leave their churches
  • Set up Chairman Lee as the “true groom”
  • Make salvation dependent on organizational membership

By Lesson 54, students have invested 8 months and 216+ hours. The psychological barriers to leaving are immense. But the cost of continuing is far greater:

Continuing will lead to:

  • Leaving your church and losing your Christian community
  • Abandoning your pastor based on false accusations
  • Viewing yourself as an “orphan” instead of God’s beloved child
  • Accepting Chairman Lee as the “true groom” (a role that belongs to Christ alone)
  • Living with anxiety about meeting “qualifications”
  • Replacing the simple gospel with a complex, burdensome system

The lesson’s core deception is this: It takes the beautiful biblical picture of Christ as the Groom and the church as His bride, and twists it to serve SCJ’s agenda. Christ becomes just one of many possible “grooms.” Pastors become “widows.” Church members become “orphans.” And SCJ becomes the solution.

But this contradicts everything Scripture teaches:

The Bible says:

  • Christ is the unique Groom; the church is His unique bride
  • Pastors are shepherds, not grooms who can become widows
  • Believers are God’s adopted children, not orphans
  • The wedding banquet is open to all who believe in Christ
  • Salvation is by grace through faith, not by meeting qualifications

SCJ says:

  • Groom = any spirit; bride = any flesh
  • Pastors are grooms who have become widows (betrayers)
  • Church members are orphans who need to be rescued
  • Only 144,000 qualified SCJ members will enter the banquet
  • Salvation requires understanding, leaving churches, and joining SCJ

These cannot both be true.

The Choice Before You

If you’re taking Lesson 54, you’re at the most critical decision point yet. The next lessons will explicitly instruct you to leave your church. Once you do, recovery becomes much more difficult.

You must choose:

Option 1: Continue and Accept That:

  • Your pastor is a widow (betrayer without the Holy Spirit)
  • You’re an orphan (abandoned by your pastor)
  • You must leave your church immediately
  • Chairman Lee is the true groom at the second coming
  • Only 144,000 SCJ members will be saved
  • You must meet qualifications to enter the wedding banquet

Option 2: Leave Now and Return To:

  • Christ as the unique and only Groom
  • The church as His beloved bride
  • Your pastor as a shepherd caring for Christ’s flock
  • Your identity as God’s adopted child
  • Salvation by grace through faith in Christ
  • Peace and assurance in the gospel

The Biblical Call:

2 Corinthians 11:2-3 – “I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him. But I am afraid that just as Eve was deceived by the serpent’s cunning, your minds may somehow be led astray from your sincere and pure devotion to Christ.”

Don’t let your mind be led astray from sincere and pure devotion to Christ. SCJ’s teaching about grooms, widows, orphans, and qualifications is leading you away from Christ, not toward Him.

Ephesians 5:25-27 – “Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless.”

Christ loved the church—not Babylon, not a graveyard, but His beloved bride. He gave Himself up for her. He’s making her holy. He will present her to Himself as radiant and blameless.

You are part of that bride if you belong to Christ through faith. You’re not an orphan. You’re not in Babylon. You’re not spiritually dead. You’re a beloved child of God, part of Christ’s cherished bride, secure in His love.

Don’t trade this beautiful reality for SCJ’s distorted system.

The Real Hope

The lesson’s stated hope is: “To be qualified to enter the wedding banquet at the Second Coming!”

But this hope is false. It’s based on:

  • A distorted view of pastors as widows
  • A false identity as orphans
  • Performance-based qualifications
  • Organizational membership requirements
  • Chairman Lee as the “true groom”

The real hope is found in Christ alone:

Colossians 1:27 – “To them God has chosen to make known among the Gentiles the glorious riches of this mystery, which is Christ in you, the hope of glory.”

Christ in you is the hope of glory—not SCJ’s teaching, not Chairman Lee’s testimony, not organizational membership. Christ Himself.

Titus 2:13-14 – “While we wait for the blessed hope—the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ, who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good.”

The blessed hope is:

  • The appearing of Jesus Christ – Not Chairman Lee, but Jesus Himself
  • Who gave himself for us – Christ died for us
  • To redeem us – Christ saved us
  • To purify for himself a people – We’re His people, His bride

Revelation 19:7-9 – “Let us rejoice and be glad and give him glory! For the wedding of the Lamb has come, and his bride has made herself ready. Fine linen, bright and clean, was given her to wear. (Fine linen stands for the righteous acts of God’s holy people.) Then the angel said to me, ‘Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!’ And he added, ‘These are the true words of God.'”

This is the real wedding:

  • The wedding of the Lamb – Christ the Groom
  • His bride has made herself ready – The church, made ready by Christ’s work
  • Fine linen was given her to wear – Righteousness given as a gift
  • Blessed are those who are invited – All who believe are invited
  • These are the true words of God – This is God’s truth, not SCJ’s distortion

This is the hope that will not disappoint:

Romans 5:5 – “And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us.”

This hope—hope in Christ, hope in His finished work, hope in the wedding of the Lamb—will not disappoint. It’s grounded in God’s love poured out through the Holy Spirit.

SCJ’s hope will disappoint because it’s grounded in:

  • Human interpretation
  • Organizational claims
  • Leader worship
  • Performance-based salvation
  • Limited, exclusive membership

But hope in Christ will never disappoint because it’s grounded in:

  • God’s unchanging character
  • Christ’s finished work
  • The Spirit’s indwelling presence
  • Scripture’s reliable promises
  • Grace, not works

The Final Word

You are not an orphan. You are not abandoned. You are not in Babylon.

If you belong to Christ through faith:

You are God’s beloved child – “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!” (1 John 3:1)

You are part of Christ’s bride – “Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her” (Ephesians 5:25)

You are secure in Christ’s love – “Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:38-39)

You are invited to the wedding banquet – “Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!” (Revelation 19:9)

You don’t need to leave your church to find the true Groom. Christ is already yours through faith.

You don’t need to meet qualifications to enter the banquet. Christ’s righteousness is already yours by grace.

You don’t need Chairman Lee’s testimony to have life. Christ Himself is your life.

This is the gospel. This is the hope. This is the truth that sets you free.


For more information and resources:

  • Visit https://closerlookinitiative.com/shincheonji-examination for comprehensive examination of Shincheonji’s teachings
  • Read “Testing Shincheonji’s Claims: Two Lenses, One Story” for detailed biblical refutation
  • Contact former member support groups for help leaving SCJ
  • Speak with your pastor or a trusted Christian leader
  • Research SCJ independently online to learn what you haven’t been told

Remember: Truth welcomes examination. Deception fears it. If SCJ’s teaching is true, research will confirm it. If it’s false, you need to know before you leave your church and lose your Christian community.

The choice is yours. Choose wisely. Choose freedom. Choose Christ—the true and only Groom.


“I am jealous for you with a godly jealousy. I promised you to one husband, to Christ, so that I might present you as a pure virgin to him.” – 2 Corinthians 11:2

You are promised to one husband—Christ.

Not to Chairman Lee. Not to an organization. To Christ alone.

And He will never leave you. He will never become a widow. He will never abandon you as an orphan.

He is faithful. He is true. He is your Groom forever.


A Final Prayer

Heavenly Father,

We pray for everyone involved in Shincheonji’s study program, especially those taking Lesson 54 who are being told to leave their churches.

Open their eyes to see that Christ alone is the Groom, and the church is His beloved bride. Help them recognize that they’re not orphans but Your adopted children. Show them that their pastors are shepherds, not widows who have betrayed.

Give them courage to leave SCJ despite the time invested. Protect them from the manipulation and pressure to abandon their churches. Bring them back to the simple gospel of grace.

We pray for pastors whose sheep are being targeted. Give them wisdom to recognize the deception and courage to speak truth. Help them shepherd their flocks with love and vigilance.

We pray for friends and family watching loved ones being deceived. Give them wisdom, patience, and effective words. Help them intervene before their loved ones leave their churches.

We pray for former members recovering from SCJ involvement. Heal their wounds, restore their relationships, renew their faith in the true Groom—Christ.

We pray for SCJ leaders and members. Convict them of the truth. Show them that they’re teaching a false gospel. Bring them to genuine repentance and faith in Christ alone.

Above all, we pray that Your church would stand firm in the truth. Protect believers from deception. Help us all to know and love Christ as our true and only Groom.

We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, the Lamb of God, the Bridegroom of the church, the one mediator between God and humanity.

Amen.

Outline

The Spiritual Dynamics of Betrayal and Faithfulness: Unveiling the True Wedding Banquet

A. Introduction: Unveiling the Second Coming

This section introduces the concept of the Second Coming, emphasizing the importance of understanding its details. It highlights the figurative meanings of groom, bride, widow, and orphan in a spiritual context, emphasizing the role of the pastor in receiving and disseminating God’s word.

B. Qualification for the Wedding Banquet

This section underscores the necessity of meeting specific criteria to participate in the wedding banquet at the Second Coming. It emphasizes that God prioritizes the heart and the presence of His word within individuals over physical appearances.

C. The Figurative Grave: Organizations of False Truth

This section revisits the concept of the figurative grave as a representation of organizations promoting false truths, drawing parallels between the Pharisees and Sadducees of the past and the concept of Babylon in Revelation. It emphasizes the importance of recognizing and escaping spiritual graves.

D. Spiritual Significance of Gender

This section clarifies the spiritual equality between men and women in God’s eyes, drawing upon Galatians 3:26-29. It emphasizes the importance of the “seed” as a representation of God’s word and the spiritual sonship it grants.

E. Figurative Groom and Bride: Unveiling Spiritual Marriage

  1. Old Testament Prophecy: This subsection analyzes Hosea 2:19-20, highlighting God’s promise to betroth a new “you” after the previous one broke the covenant. It emphasizes the gravity of covenant relationships in God’s eyes.
  2. Physical Characteristics of a Groom and a Bride: This subsection draws upon Romans 1:20 and Hosea 12:10 to explain how God uses physical examples to convey spiritual truths. It focuses on the covenant relationship between a groom and bride, the transfer of seed, and the resulting child.
  3. Spiritual (True) Meaning of Groom and Bride: This subsection delves into the spiritual significance of the groom and bride imagery.
  • ONE: Analyzing Jeremiah 31:31-32, it highlights God’s disappointment with covenant breaking and His intention to establish a new covenant. It emphasizes the importance of God’s covenant with His chosen people, likening it to a marriage.
  • TWO: This section uses Galatians 4:19 and 1 Corinthians 6:13 to demonstrate the role of spiritual mothers (pastors) in nurturing and guiding the congregation (spiritual children). It highlights the pain and dedication involved in spiritual childbirth and nurturing.
  1. Hosea 2:19-20 (Old Testament Prophecy) Fulfilled: This subsection connects the Old Testament prophecy to the First Coming, identifying Jesus as the “you” God betrothed.
  2. First Coming Fulfillment: This subsection focuses on Matthew 3:16 and John 10:30 to confirm Jesus as the recipient of God’s Spirit and His unity with the Father. It highlights Jesus’ mission of sharing God’s word and bearing spiritual children.
  3. Spiritual Marriage (Wedding) at the Second Coming: This subsection explores the concept of the wedding banquet at the Second Coming.
  • ONE: This section analyzes Matthew 22:1-4, drawing a parallel between the Kingdom of Heaven and a wedding banquet. It identifies God as the king, Jesus as the son, and emphasizes the significance of this event in the Second Coming.
  • TWO: This section delves into Revelation 2:18 and 2:26-29, identifying Jesus as the Spirit and highlighting the rewards bestowed upon the one who overcomes. It connects the morning star mentioned here to the one promised in Revelation 2.
  • THREE: This section examines Revelation 10:8-11, describing John’s role in receiving and disseminating the open scroll, comparing it to the missions of Paul and the disciples.
  • FOUR: This section utilizes Revelation 22:8, 16-17 and 19:6-9 to unveil the identity of the bride as those who have prepared themselves for the wedding banquet. It highlights the location of the banquet at Mount Zion.
  • FIVE: This section analyzes Matthew 22:3-4, focusing on the food served at the wedding banquet – God’s oxen and fattened cattle. It interprets the oxen as God’s workers (betrayers) who have been judged and the fattened cattle as the destroyers who have consumed them.
  • SIX: This section outlines the three qualifications for participating in the wedding banquet: wedding clothes (heart, word, and actions), the lamp (the Word), and the oil (the Word of Testimony). It stresses the importance of preparation to avoid being caught off guard.
  1. Satan’s Groom and Bride: This subsection explores Revelation 18:23, highlighting the cessation of the bridegroom and bride’s voices in Babylon. It identifies Satan and demons as the bridegroom, and their followers as the brides, emphasizing the importance of discerning and avoiding this counterfeit banquet.
  2. Figurative Widow and Orphan: This subsection defines the widow as a betrayer who was once married to God but lost His spirit, becoming a pastor with a closed word. The congregation, left fatherless, becomes the orphans in this scenario. It emphasizes the need to avoid such situations where truth is absent.

F. Conclusion: Discernment and Preparation for the True Wedding Banquet

This concluding section emphasizes the importance of recognizing and avoiding counterfeit spiritual paths, particularly those represented by Satan’s groom and bride or the figurative widow and orphans. It urges readers to actively prepare themselves by attaining the three qualifications – wedding clothes, the lamp, and the oil – to ensure their participation in the true wedding banquet at Mount Zion.

A Study Guide

Second Coming Revelations: A Study Guide

Key Concepts

  • Second Coming: The prophesied return of Jesus Christ to Earth.
  • Wedding Banquet: A metaphorical representation of the Kingdom of Heaven at the second coming, symbolizing union with God.
  • Groom: Represents the Spirit, specifically Jesus Christ in the context of the Second Coming.
  • Bride: Represents the flesh, specifically those who have accepted Christ and are prepared for his return.
  • Seed: Figuratively represents the Word of God.
  • Children: Those who have been spiritually reborn through the Word of God.
  • Oxen: Represent workers of God, particularly those who are active in sharing the Word.
  • Fattened Cattle: Represent those who have destroyed the betrayers of God, having feasted on their judgment.
  • Wedding Garment: Represents a state of spiritual readiness, encompassing a pure heart, right actions, and adherence to true doctrine.
  • Lamp: Represents the Word of God.
  • Oil: Represents the Word of Testimony.
  • Widow: Represents a pastor who has betrayed God and lost the Holy Spirit.
  • Orphan: Represents a believer who belongs to a congregation led by a pastor who has betrayed God, symbolizing spiritual abandonment.
  • Babylon: A metaphorical representation of false teachings and organizations that lead people astray, symbolizing the spiritual grave at the second coming.

Short Answer Quiz

Instructions: Answer each question in 2-3 sentences.

  1. How does the parable of the wedding banquet in Matthew 22 relate to the Second Coming?
  2. Explain the spiritual significance of the groom and the bride in the context of the Second Coming.
  3. What is the role of the seed in the spiritual marriage metaphor?
  4. What is the significance of the oxen and fattened cattle being served at the wedding banquet?
  5. What are the three qualifications necessary to be prepared for the wedding banquet of the Lamb?
  6. What does the term “widow” represent in the context of the Second Coming?
  7. Who are the “orphans” and what is their spiritual state?
  8. How does the concept of spiritual marriage contrast with Satan’s groom and bride described in Revelation 18?
  9. According to the lesson, why is it important to be aware of the existence of false teachings and organizations?
  10. What action is encouraged when one realizes they are in a spiritual grave like Babylon?

Short Answer Key

  1. The parable of the wedding banquet in Matthew 22 is a direct metaphor for the Kingdom of Heaven at the Second Coming. It symbolizes the union of Christ with his followers and emphasizes the importance of being prepared for his return.
  2. The groom in the spiritual marriage metaphor represents the Spirit, specifically Jesus Christ, while the bride represents the flesh, symbolizing those who have accepted Christ and are ready for his return.
  3. The seed represents the Word of God, which is shared by the groom (Spirit) with the bride (believers). The result of receiving and living by the Word is the birth of spiritual children.
  4. The oxen represent workers of God who have been betrayed and judged. The fattened cattle represent those who have destroyed these betrayers and are now feasting on the resulting judgment. This imagery highlights the consequences of betrayal and the victory of those who remain faithful.
  5. To be prepared for the wedding banquet, one must possess: 1) the wedding garment (a pure heart, right actions, and true doctrine), 2) the lamp (the Word of God), and 3) the oil (the Word of Testimony).
  6. A widow represents a pastor who was once connected to God but has betrayed him and lost the Holy Spirit. They no longer receive or share the true Word of God.
  7. Orphans are the members of a congregation led by a pastor who has become a “widow.” They are spiritually abandoned and lack proper guidance due to their pastor’s betrayal.
  8. The spiritual marriage with Christ is based on truth, love, and faithfulness, leading to spiritual life and unity with God. In contrast, Satan’s groom and bride represent the union of evil spirits with those who follow false teachings, leading to spiritual death and separation from God.
  9. Being aware of false teachings and organizations is crucial because they represent spiritual traps, leading people away from God and into spiritual death. Discernment is necessary to avoid these pitfalls.
  10. Upon realizing one is in a spiritual grave like Babylon, one is encouraged to heed the call to “Come out of her, my people!” This means actively separating from false teachings and seeking the truth with urgency and passion.

Additional Questions

1. What is the meaning of the Figurative Groom, Bride, Widow, and Orphan?

– Groom: Spirit
– Bride: Flesh
– Widow: Pastor who debreayed and is without the Holy Spirit
– Orphan: Believers belonging to the pastor who betrayed

2. Who were the Groom and the Bride at the First Coming?

– Groom → God
– Bride → Jesus

3. Who are the Groom and Bride at the Second Coming?

– Groom → Jesus
– Bride → New John

4. Who has married Satan at the time of the Second Coming?

– All nations (Revelation 18:4)

Glossary of Key Terms

  • Betroth: To promise to marry; to enter into a covenant of marriage.
  • Covenant: A solemn agreement or promise; a binding agreement between two parties.
  • Figurative: Symbolic; representing something else; not literal.
  • Flesh: In a spiritual context, refers to the physical body and its desires, often contrasted with the spirit.
  • Gentile: A person who is not Jewish.
  • Harlot: A prostitute; a woman who engages in sexual immorality.
  • Judgment: The act of God determining the righteousness or wickedness of individuals or groups, often resulting in consequences.
  • Parable: A story with a moral or spiritual lesson.
  • Prophet: A person who speaks God’s message to people.
  • Resurrection: The act of being raised from death to life.
  • Spirit: The non-physical part of a person; the life force that animates the body; in a religious context, often refers to the Holy Spirit or a supernatural being.
  • Testimony: A statement of truth based on personal experience or knowledge.
  • Vessel: A container; in a spiritual context, a person chosen by God to carry out His purpose.

Breakdown

Timeline of Events:

This lesson doesn’t present a chronological timeline of events. Instead, it uses biblical verses and parables to explain spiritual concepts related to the Second Coming of Christ. Here’s a breakdown of the spiritual concepts discussed:

Old Testament Prophecy:

  • God expresses his lament over a people who have broken his covenant and become like a harlot (Hosea 2).
  • God promises to establish a new covenant with a new “you,” characterized by righteousness, justice, love, compassion, and faithfulness (Hosea 2:19-20).

First Coming Fulfillment:

  • God fulfills the prophecy of the new covenant through Jesus Christ.
  • The Holy Spirit descends upon Jesus, marking him as the chosen one (Matthew 3:16).
  • Jesus declares his unity with God the Father (John 10:30).
  • Jesus shares the Word of God, giving birth to spiritual children (John 17:8).

Second Coming and the Wedding Banquet:

  • The Kingdom of Heaven is likened to a wedding banquet, symbolizing the union of Christ with his bride (Matthew 22:1-4).
  • Jesus is identified as the groom and the Holy Spirit (Revelation 2:18, 26-29).
  • The bride is the one who overcomes, receiving authority, the morning star, and the open scroll (Revelation 2:26-29, 10:8-11).
  • The wedding banquet takes place at Mount Zion (Revelation 14).
  • The food served represents the judgment of betrayers (oxen) by destroyers (fattened cattle) (Matthew 22:3-4).
  • Three qualifications are needed for entry: proper wedding clothes (heart, word, actions), a lamp (the Word), and oil (the Word of Testimony) (Matthew 22, 25).

Satan’s Counterfeit:

  • Satan also has a groom (devil/demons) and bride (those spreading false teachings) who produce their own children (Revelation 18:23).
  • This counterfeit union is likened to a prostitute and mother, symbolizing its corrupting influence (Revelation 17:1-5).

Figurative Widow and Orphan:

  • A widow represents a pastor who has betrayed God and lost the Holy Spirit.
  • Orphans represent the congregation left without the true Word.

Overall Message:

The lesson emphasizes the importance of discerning the true from the false in preparation for the Second Coming. It calls believers to be prepared with the proper qualifications to attend the wedding banquet of the Lamb and avoid the counterfeit unions offered by Satan.

Cast of Characters

1. God:

  • The King in the parable of the wedding banquet.
  • The Father, with whom Jesus is one.
  • The husband in the spiritual marriage covenant.
  • The judge of betrayers and those involved in false religion.

2. Jesus:

  • The Son of God.
  • The groom in the spiritual marriage.
  • The Lamb of God at the wedding banquet.
  • The Spirit who speaks to the churches.
  • The one who received the seed (Word) from God during the First Coming and will share it with his bride at the Second Coming.

3. The Bride:

  • The true followers of Jesus.
  • Those who receive the seed (Word) from Jesus and bear spiritual children.
  • Those who qualify for the wedding banquet by having the proper wedding clothes (pure heart, right actions, and sound doctrine), the lamp (Word), and the oil (Word of Testimony).

4. Pastors:

  • Spiritual mothers who receive the word from God and nurture their congregations.
  • Can become widows if they betray God and lose the Holy Spirit.

5. Congregations:

  • Spiritual children of pastors who receive the seed (Word) and are nurtured.
  • Become orphans if their pastor betrays God and they are left without truth.

6. Satan:

  • The bridegroom in the counterfeit spiritual marriage.
  • Works through false prophets and churches to deceive people.

7. False Prophets and Churches:

  • The bride in the counterfeit spiritual marriage.
  • Spread false teachings and lead people astray.

8. John:

  • The apostle who received the open scroll (Word) from Jesus and was tasked with sharing it.
  • The one who witnessed the visions of Revelation.

9. Paul:

  • An apostle who likened himself to a woman in labor, signifying his role in bringing people to Christ.
  • Emphasized the importance of spiritual maturity and providing appropriate spiritual nourishment.

Overview

Overview: The Spiritual Significance of Marriage, Widowhood, and Orphanhood

 

Core Analogy: The central analogy presented is that of marriage. It is used to illustrate the relationship between God and his chosen people, and the crucial role of spiritual fruitfulness.

Key Figures and Their Symbolic Meanings:

  • Groom: Represents the spirit, specifically God or Jesus, who provides the “seed” of the Word.
  • Bride: Represents the flesh, specifically those who receive and nurture the Word, like pastors and individual believers, tasked with bearing spiritual children.
  • Widow: Represents a pastor who has betrayed God and lost the Holy Spirit. They are no longer receiving or disseminating the true Word.
  • Orphan: Represents the congregation of a “widow” pastor. They are left without the true Word and spiritual guidance.

Key Concepts:

  • The Seed: The seed represents the Word of God, which is to be received, nurtured, and shared to produce spiritual fruit (new believers).
  • Spiritual Childbirth: The process of sharing the Word and nurturing new believers in their faith is likened to the pains of childbirth, highlighting the commitment and effort required.
  • Spiritual Maturity: The goal is to help new believers grow into mature Christians, capable of standing firm in their faith and continuing the work of spreading the Word.
  • The Wedding Banquet: A metaphor for the Kingdom of Heaven, prophesied to take place at the second coming. Access to the banquet requires specific qualifications:
  • Wedding Clothes: Represent a person’s heart, actions, and doctrine, signifying alignment with God’s will.
  • Lamp: Represents the Word of God, signifying knowledge and understanding.
  • Oil: Represents the Word of Testimony, signifying the application of the Word in one’s life and the ability to share personal experiences.
  • Satan’s Counterfeit: The source warns of a counterfeit “wedding banquet” orchestrated by Satan, where the bridegroom is the devil, the bride is those who serve him, and the seed is false teachings.

Important Quotes:

  • On Spiritual Sonship: “So in Christ Jesus you are all children of God through faith… There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” (Galatians 3:26-28)
  • On the Role of the Pastor: “My dear children, for whom I am again in the pains of childbirth until Christ is formed in you.” (Galatians 4:19)
  • On the New Covenant: ““The days are coming,” declares the Lord, “when I will make a new covenant with the people of Israel and with the people of Judah.” (Jeremiah 31:31)
  • On the Importance of the Seed: “God did not give you the open word for you to keep it only to yourself.”
  • On the Wedding Banquet: “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son.” (Matthew 22:2)
  • On the Qualifications for the Banquet: “Blessed are those who are invited to the wedding supper of the Lamb!” (Revelation 19:9)

Call to Action: The lesson emphasizes the importance of discerning between the true Word of God and the counterfeit teachings of Satan. It calls believers to prepare themselves spiritually for the second coming, ensuring they possess the necessary qualifications to partake in the “wedding banquet” of the Kingdom of Heaven.

Q&A

Q&A: Spiritual Marriage and the Second Coming

1. What is the spiritual significance of the groom and the bride?

The groom symbolizes the spirit, specifically the Holy Spirit or the Word of God, while the bride represents the flesh, such as a person or a church. This analogy stems from the physical act of procreation where a man’s seed produces a child. Similarly, the Holy Spirit, through the Word of God, brings forth spiritual children (believers).

2. How is the concept of spiritual marriage connected to the Second Coming?

The Second Coming is depicted as a grand wedding banquet where Jesus, the groom, unites with His bride, which is the faithful remnant who have received the open word of God and lived according to it. This event signifies the establishment of the Kingdom of Heaven on Earth.

3. What are the qualifications to attend the wedding banquet at the Second Coming?

To attend the wedding banquet, one must have:

  1. Wedding Clothes: Symbolic of righteous deeds, a pure heart, and adherence to true doctrine.
  2. Lamp: Represents the Word of God, which guides and illuminates the path of the believer.
  3. Oil: Signifies the Word of Testimony, the understanding and application of God’s Word in one’s life.

4. Who are the “oxen and fattened cattle” served at the wedding banquet?

This imagery represents the judgment of those who betrayed God. The “oxen,” symbolizing faithful workers of God who have strayed, are “butchered” or judged by the Word of Testimony. The “fattened cattle” are those who remained faithful and ultimately triumphed over the betrayers.

5. What is the meaning of the figurative widow and orphan in this context?

A “widow” represents a pastor or church leader who has abandoned the true Word of God and is now spiritually dead, devoid of the Holy Spirit. Their congregation, deprived of true spiritual guidance, becomes the “orphans,” left fatherless in their faith.

6. How does Satan counterfeit the concept of spiritual marriage?

Satan, as the counterfeit groom, establishes his own twisted form of spiritual marriage with those who follow him. He uses deception and false doctrines as his “seed” to produce spiritual offspring who are in rebellion against God.

7. How can we discern between true and false spiritual unions?

Discernment comes through studying the Word of God and understanding its true interpretation. A genuine spiritual union is characterized by the presence of the Holy Spirit, the proclamation of the true Word of God, and a life that aligns with God’s commandments.

8. What is the ultimate fate of those who choose Satan’s counterfeit marriage?

Those who choose to align themselves with Satan and his false doctrines will ultimately face judgment and destruction, symbolized by the absence of the bridegroom and bride in Babylon (Revelation 18:23). Conversely, those who faithfully follow God will participate in the eternal joy of the wedding banquet at the Second Coming.

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